Pick Me or Just Different?

Are you a Pick Me… or are you simply a woman who likes what she likes? 👀 In this episode of Tell Me More, Sis, we're unpacking the “Pick Me” label and asking whether it's actually helping women call out unhealthy behaviour—or whether we've started using it to judge women whose choices don't look like ours. Why do some women seek validation from men by distancing themselves from other women? Is saying “I'm not like other girls” always Pick Me behaviour? And can you genuinely prefer male friendships, traditional gender roles or a low-maintenance lifestyle without being one? We also get into the other side of the conversation: have we weaponised the term Pick Me? Are women now being labelled simply for choosing a different way of living? From male validation and female competition to beauty standards, relationships and the expectations placed on African women, we're asking the uncomfortable questions and challenging our own assumptions along the way. So go on then... Tell Me More, Sis. 🎙️