Please Don’t Say “Calm Down,” Say This Instead
Episode 19 of the Indispensable People podcast, hosted by Tracie Corll, titled "Please Don’t Say “Calm Down,” Say This Instead" was published on February 13, 2026 and runs 14 minutes.
February 13, 2026 ·14m · Indispensable People
Summary
Send us Fan Mail We share a practical framework for de‑escalation that respects dignity, reduces sensory overload, and keeps people safe. From language swaps to sensory tools and safety protocols, we map out how churches can become truly accessible, not just well‑intentioned. • scale of disability attendance gap and perception mismatch • knowing the person to spot early escalation • proactive sensory supports and spaces • movement and game‑based regulation tools • what to say instead of calm...
Episode Description
We share a practical framework for de‑escalation that respects dignity, reduces sensory overload, and keeps people safe. From language swaps to sensory tools and safety protocols, we map out how churches can become truly accessible, not just well‑intentioned.
• scale of disability attendance gap and perception mismatch
• knowing the person to spot early escalation
• proactive sensory supports and spaces
• movement and game‑based regulation tools
• what to say instead of calm down
• non‑confrontational response during fight or flight
• safety protocols when strategies fail
• debriefing the community without stigma
• partnering with caregivers to build future plans
• commitment to an accessible gospel for everyone
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