EPISODE · Apr 6, 2024 · 59 MIN
Poddin' My Noggin S1:E14 - Beyond Silence: Alyssa Decker's Journey from Faith to Freedom & Life After Abuse
from The C.K. Simms Show · host C.K. Simms
https://www.instagram.com/coachingwithalyssa614 Summary In this episode, Alyssa Decker shares her story of growing up in a conservative evangelical home and the influence of her Pentecostal faith. She discusses the pressure to choose a spouse based on a checklist and the belief that divorce is never an option. Alyssa reflects on ignoring red flags and overriding her intuition, leading to an emotionally abusive marriage. She shares the impact of deception and gaslighting, as well as the challenges of navigating societal expectations and the fear of inconveniencing others. Alyssa's story highlights the importance of listening to intuition and the consequences of ignoring warning signs. In this conversation, Alyssa Decker shares her experience of being in an abusive relationship and eventually finding the strength to leave. She discusses the cycles of trying to make the relationship work, the challenges of moving overseas, and the escalating abuse she faced. Alyssa also highlights the importance of recognizing abuse and seeking help, both for those in abusive relationships and for friends and family who may be concerned. She emphasizes the need for safety planning and finding support from therapists, coaches, or trusted confidants. Alyssa's story serves as a reminder that healing and thriving are possible after leaving an abusive relationship. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:28 Growing Up in a Conservative Evangelical Home 03:26 The Influence of Pentecostal Faith 04:45 The Role of Faith in Choosing a Spouse 07:16 Ignoring Red Flags and Overriding Intuition 08:15 The Pressure to Get Married and Avoid Divorce 11:40 Listening to Intuition and Gut Feelings 22:24 The Pressure of Wedding Expectations 23:13 Unveiling Deception on the Honeymoon 26:27 The Impact of Lies and Betrayal 28:46 Cycles of Forgiveness and Muting Intuition 31:14 Moving Overseas 34:40 Returning Home 37:26 Struggles in Texas 42:14 Recognizing Abuse 46:59 Beginning the Exit 51:29 Escalation of Violence 52:29 Ensuring Safety 57:37 Healing and Thriving 01:00:36 Advice for Those in Abusive Relationships
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https://www.instagram.com/coachingwithalyssa614 Summary In this episode, Alyssa Decker shares her story of growing up in a conservative evangelical home and the influence of her Pentecostal faith. She discusses the pressure to choose a spouse based on a checklist and the belief that divorce is never an option. Alyssa reflects on ignoring red flags and overriding her intuition, leading to an emotionally abusive marriage. She shares the impact of deception and gaslighting, as well as the challenges of navigating societal expectations and the fear of inconveniencing others. Alyssa's story highlights the importance of listening to intuition and the consequences of ignoring warning signs. In this conversation, Alyssa Decker shares her experience of being in an abusive relationship and eventually finding the strength to leave. She discusses the cycles of trying to make the relationship work, the challenges of moving overseas, and the escalating abuse she faced. Alyssa also highlights the importance of recognizing abuse and seeking help, both for those in abusive relationships and for friends and family who may be concerned. She emphasizes the need for safety planning and finding support from therapists, coaches, or trusted confidants. Alyssa's story serves as a reminder that healing and thriving are possible after leaving an abusive relationship. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:28 Growing Up in a Conservative Evangelical Home 03:26 The Influence of Pentecostal Faith 04:45 The Role of Faith in Choosing a Spouse 07:16 Ignoring Red Flags and Overriding Intuition 08:15 The Pressure to Get Married and Avoid Divorce 11:40 Listening to Intuition and Gut Feelings 22:24 The Pressure of Wedding Expectations 23:13 Unveiling Deception on the Honeymoon 26:27 The Impact of Lies and Betrayal 28:46 Cycles of Forgiveness and Muting Intuition 31:14 Moving Overseas 34:40 Returning Home 37:26 Struggles in Texas 42:14 Recognizing Abuse 46:59 Beginning the Exit 51:29 Escalation of Violence 52:29 Ensuring Safety 57:37 Healing and Thriving 01:00:36 Advice for Those in Abusive Relationships
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