Policy Over Preference: A Project Manager’s Memoir on Advocating for My Parental Leave

When Devon found out he was going to be a father, he did what any seasoned project manager would do — he reviewed the documentation. What he discovered was a major policy change granting 12 weeks of paid parental leave. What followed was unexpected pushback, resistance, and the uncomfortable reality of having to advocate for his own rights at work.In this episode of Memoirs of a Project Manager, Devon shares a deeply personal story about navigating policy, confronting dismissal, and using preparation and documentation to stand firm. This isn’t just a story about parental leave — it’s about knowing your rights, managing risk in your own life, and understanding that advocacy is not insubordination.If you’ve ever faced workplace resistance, uncertainty around policy, or subtle discrimination, this episode will equip you with practical tools and the confidence to stand on facts — not fear.You’ll walk away with:A framework for advocating professionally and effectivelyWhy documentation is your strongest allyHow to navigate pushback without escalating emotionA reminder that policy protects you — but only if you know itBecause sometimes the most important project you’ll ever manage… is yourself.