Positive Communication using the "I See" Strategy

Great communication with your children results in stronger relationships, greater cooperation, and feelings of worth and value. As adults, we have no problem dishing out instructions but that takes away all of the child’s control and ownership. This often leads to kids that don’t listen. Lauren discusses the first of her 7 Communication Tactics in this episode: the “I see…”  Strategy. Part of this strategy is giving your kiddo a problem to solve instead of a verbal order. This option gives them a chance to be in control of the situation instead of being told what to do. The body’s stress response system REALLY likes that! Remember – When making changes like this, give both yourself and your kiddos some grace. You are learning a new “language”, and they need time to understand it.The next several episodes talk more about the 7 Communication Tactics. Be sure to catch them all! Mentioned in this episode:Pneumonic for the 7 Communication Tactics: SCHWINFBooks by Dr. Mark HymanThe Unhealthy Truth by Robyn O’BrienLauren answers this week’s listener question during the episode: How can I help children cope with underlying stress?Try-at-home tip: Drink half your body weight in ounces every day! Other related resources from The Behavior Hub: Blog Post: Positive Communication: Give Children a Problem to SolveProgressive Muscle Relaxation for Kids (& Adults!)Podcast:Why Behaviors Occur - The 5 Needs AreasOur Online Courses: From Conflict to Calm: Communicating so kids listen the FIRST time From Wild Emotions to Tamed Feelings – How to Self-Regulate (5 Needs Areas) Do you have a question? I can answer it in a future episode! Email questions to [email protected] or send via text to 717-693-7744.Subscribe to our mailing list and find out more about the Emotional Brain.Check out our Facebook Group – Raising and Teaching Respectful Children The Behavior Hub websiteThe Behavior Hub blogAre you struggling with behaviors and not sure where to begin? Let me help! Schedule a free discovery call and let me be your Guide.As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.