EPISODE · May 22, 2026 · 18 MIN
Power = Energy + Choice: Redefining Power and Reclaiming Your Sovereignty
from Her On Top
What is power? And how has patriarchy corrupted our understanding of what true power actually means?In this episode, Kayla shares a profound redefinition of power from the Lady of Communion archetype in her priestess training: Power = Energy + Choice.Not power-over. Not control. Not climbing ladders or crushing competition. Real power is the feminine creative energy (life force, eros, potential) combined with the masculine discernment and integrity (choice, how we use that energy). It's sovereignty. It's sitting on your throne and knowing you are divine, connected to Source, connected to Earth, connected to all living things.Kayla breaks down how patriarchy has stripped us of this power — especially women, but also all humans. We've been told we're minuscule, lowly, unworthy. We've forgotten that humans are royalty of the cosmos — deeply powerful beings connected to both Earth and the heavens. We've been disconnected from our beauty, our capacity for love, our divinity.But we're remembering. And when we tune inward, close our eyes, and feel what it means to be a sovereign being connected to Source, Earth, and all living things — nothing can stop us.This episode is a reclamation. A remembering. A call to sit on your sovereign throne and say: No more.Kayla also invites listeners to the Holy Rage Circle (May 29 in Gig Harbor, WA) — a space to feel grief and rage, alchemize it into joy and pleasure, and hold the frequency of the new Earth together in community.In this episode, we explore:Redefining power: Energy + Choice (not power-over)Feminine = creative energy (eros, life force, potential)Masculine = choice, discernment, integrity (how we use the energy)How patriarchy has corrupted power into control and greedSovereignty: no longer beholden to external authorityYou are handcrafted from Source (like a masterpiece)Humans are royalty of the cosmos (not minuscule or lowly)We've been stripped of our power to keep us controllableWomen especially disconnected from power for millenniaHow celebrity and "platforms" relate to power (how do you use it?)Sitting on your sovereign throne and saying "No more"Connecting inward: Earth below, cosmos above, all living things aroundHoly Rage Circle (May 29, Gig Harbor WA) — alchemize grief into joy, hold the visionThis is your power. Claim it.Holy Rage Circle - May 29, 20256-8pm | A Touch of Meraki, Gig Harbor, WAFeel it all, Release it all, and Together Change the World from the Inside OutTake You Seat in the Circle, Beloved!If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing PleasureSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute FREE consultation
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