Predicting Divorce with 94 Percent Accuracy

What really makes a marriage last decades—luck, or small, daily habits? In this episode, we explore psychological research on long-term marital success, which shows that strong relationships aren't built on chemistry alone, but on deep friendship and consistent respect. We discuss the power of positive communication—including a 5:1 ratio of warm to negative interactions—and the dangers of destructive patterns like contempt. You'll also learn the importance of responding to “connection calls,” aligning with core values, and accepting that some conflicts aren't meant to be resolved, but rather managed. Ultimately, a lasting marriage isn't the result of big moments, but the daily practice of mindfulness, emotional sensitivity, and a commitment to being present with each other.