Principles for Dating Singles | Chris Chadwick | Philippians 4:11-13

In this powerful and convicting message from Marriage Weekender 2026, Pastor Chris Chadwick challenges the cultural misconceptions that often lead believers to place marriage on a pedestal it was never meant to occupy. Drawing from Philippians 4 and 1 Thessalonians 4, he exposes how the desire for marriage can easily become an idol, distracting us from our primary purpose of finding contentment in Christ alone. Whether you are single, dating, or married, this sermon provides a biblical framework for navigating relationships with holiness, discernment, and a heart fully committed to the local church.Chapters:0:00:00 - Introduction and Scripture Reading0:01:13 - The Misconception of Marriage and Value0:02:16 - When Marriage Becomes an Idol0:03:09 - The Source of Our Dating Philosophy0:03:57 - The Reality of Spiritual Warfare in Relationships0:04:47 - Biblical Sanctification and Honor0:06:01 - Core Principle: Have They Committed to Christ?0:08:44 - The Danger of Missionary Dating0:09:56 - Assessing Their Walk with God0:10:43 - Talk is Cheap: Looking for Fruit0:12:08 - Active Involvement in the Local Church0:13:30 - The Blessing of Singlehood in Service0:15:37 - Assessing Commitment Levels and Tithing0:18:03 - The Importance of Spiritual Authorities0:19:10 - Character Traits and Personality Friction0:20:45 - Do People Change?0:22:15 - Biblical Roles and Maturity0:23:17 - Helpful Hacks for Godly Dating0:24:54 - Length of Dating vs Engagement0:26:08 - Dating Outside Your Type0:27:54 - Family and Authority Dynamics0:30:17 - Q&A: Recommended Reading and TimingWe invite you to listen to more life-changing messages and grow with us in the Word of God. If you are in the San Diego area, we would love to have you join us for a service at Canyon Ridge Baptist Church. Our Sunday services are held at 8:30 AM, 10:30 AM, and 5:00 PM. Come and experience a community dedicated to biblical truth and Christian fellowship.Please share this video with your friends and encourage them to learn more at:www.canyonridgebaptist.comDid you accept Christ as your Savior today? Do you have questions about the Bible, life, death? Just need to talk to someone? Here's how to get a hold of us:Call the office at 858-627-9394Shoot us an email at [email protected] us a line on our website, canyonridgebaptist.comLeave us a note on our Facebook page, Twitter, or Instagram.Want to obey the Lord in giving today? You can do that on our website:https://www.canyonridgebaptist.com/give