EPISODE · Nov 10, 2020 · 48 MIN
Problem #29: Who pays for the dates/trips? Is sex payment too? [Ft Tai & Amiri]
from I Got Problems! · host Sandra & Co.
There is this mentality that when a man buys you a drink at the club, takes you on a date, or flies you out of state/country on a trip - sex is owed as a form of gratification or an unspoken payment from the woman in heterosexual relationships. Is this a mentality that a lot of men actually share or is this societal standards that's falsified and overhyped? Why do so many women complain about the pressure to have sex when a man pays for anything and why do so many men pressure women for sex or some type of sexual activity once they spend a little of money on a woman? ***Video used in discussion is located on the IG page for relevance: https://www.instagram.com/p/CHQdUBepXP3/ Resources: How to support BLM: https://www.timeout.com/things-to-do/how-to-support-black-lives-matter Therapy Sources: Primary Care Physician, IG: @Betterhelp, Employee assistance programs and therapyforblackgirls.com BetterHelp is free for 1 month not just 1 week specifically with our link: https://www.betterhelp.com/thoughtfulhuman/ Elite Daily: https://www.elitedaily.com/p/do-people-care-about-who-pays-on-a-date-heres-what-experts-have-to-say-17015596 Twitter Mentions: www.twitter.com #ENDSARS and other Protest in Africa: https://www.cnn.com/2020/10/25/africa/nigeria-end-sars-protests-analysis-intl/index.html Mental health tip: https://www.mhanational.org/31-tips-boost-your-mental-health Socials: Interact with us! Listen & Subscribe: https://wavve.link/igotproblems/episodes Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4vxFpB8ofKwqqjUjtncPVg IG: igotproblemspod Podcast website: https://anchor.fm/igotproblems Production Notes: Produced by Dolapo of the "Terminal 234" podcast Edited by Host: Sandra [IG: coitraveler] Co-Host #1: Annabelle [IG: msjudy_1028] Tentative Co-Host #2: Doyin [IG: msdoyinjay] Guest #1 Details: Taiwo About: Reoccurring guest feature Social media: @King_taiwo Guest #2 Details: Amiri About: New guest Social media: @theprinceishere Business: THC infusions - @higherspiritz
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Problem #29: Who pays for the dates/trips? Is sex payment too? [Ft Tai & Amiri]
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