EPISODE · Dec 15, 2020 · 34 MIN
Problem #33: Who should pay for dates? [Part 2 - Ft Jesse]
from I Got Problems! · host Sandra & Co.
In a survey on love and finances conducted by Money and SurveyMonkey, a whopping 78% of respondents said they think men should pay for the first date. And, perhaps surprisingly, 85% of men were even more likely than women (at 72%) to think that men should foot the bill as well. Even after the first date, men tend to pick up the majority of expenses and report feeling guilty taking money from women. Should this be the normal dating etiquette?? Resources: How to support BLM: https://www.timeout.com/things-to-do/how-to-support-black-lives-matter Black mental health resources: https://twitter.com/testtubeplush/status/1337231680679993344 Therapy Sources: Primary Care Physician, IG: @Betterhelp, Employee assistance programs and therapyforblackgirls.com BetterHelp is free for 1 month not just 1 week specifically with our link: https://www.betterhelp.com/thoughtfulhuman/ Who should pay for dates: https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2020/02/12/who-should-pay-for-dates-how-chivalry-contributes-to-the-gender-pay-gap/?sh=4728c9bb3fa3 Etiquettes on paying for dates: https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/money-diaries-date-paid-for-dinner Charming your date: https://theartofcharm.com/art-of-dating/guy-always-pay/ Financial dating etiquette: https://www.moneycrashers.com/dating-etiquette-rules-women/ https://www.mhanational.org/31-tips-boost-your-mental-health Guest #1 Details: Jesse (aka Marquis Music Artist) About: Singer/Rap Artist with music on various platforms Social media: @jesseoldellimusic Link: www.linktr.ee/jesseoldellimusic Socials: Interact with us! Listen & Subscribe: https://wavve.link/igotproblems/episodes Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4vxFpB8ofKwqqjUjtncPVg IG: igotproblemspod Podcast website: https://anchor.fm/igotproblems Production Notes: Produced by Dolapo of the "Terminal 234" podcast Edited by Host: Sandra [IG: coitraveler] Co-Host #1: Annabelle [IG: msjudy_1028] Tentative Co-Host #2: Doyin [IG: msdoyinjay]
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In a survey on love and finances conducted by Money and SurveyMonkey, a whopping 78% of respondents said they think men should pay for the first date. And, perhaps surprisingly, 85% of men were even more likely than women (at 72%) to think that men should foot the bill as well. Even after the first date, men tend to pick up the majority of expenses and report feeling guilty taking money from women. Should this be the normal dating etiquette?? Resources: How to support BLM: https://www.timeout.com/things-to-do/how-to-support-black-lives-matter Black mental health resources: https://twitter.com/testtubeplush/status/1337231680679993344 Therapy Sources: Primary Care Physician, IG: @Betterhelp, Employee assistance programs and therapyforblackgirls.com BetterHelp is free for 1 month not just 1 week specifically with our link: https://www.betterhelp.com/thoughtfulhuman/ Who should pay for dates: https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2020/02/12/who-should-pay-for-dates-how-chivalry-contributes-to-the-gender-pay-gap/?sh=4728c9bb3fa3 Etiquettes on paying for dates: https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/money-diaries-date-paid-for-dinner Charming your date: https://theartofcharm.com/art-of-dating/guy-always-pay/ Financial dating etiquette: https://www.moneycrashers.com/dating-etiquette-rules-women/ https://www.mhanational.org/31-tips-boost-your-mental-health Guest #1 Details: Jesse (aka Marquis Music Artist) About: Singer/Rap Artist with music on various platforms Social media: @jesseoldellimusic Link: www.linktr.ee/jesseoldellimusic Socials: Interact with us! Listen & Subscribe: https://wavve.link/igotproblems/episodes Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4vxFpB8ofKwqqjUjtncPVg IG: igotproblemspod Podcast website: https://anchor.fm/igotproblems Production Notes: Produced by Dolapo of the "Terminal 234" podcast Edited by Host: Sandra [IG: coitraveler] Co-Host #1: Annabelle [IG: msjudy_1028] Tentative Co-Host #2: Doyin [IG: msdoyinjay]
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