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EPISODE · Aug 1, 2025 · 1H 25M

Refusing to Invest in You Means They're Not the One | Jillian Turecki

from The School of Greatness · host jillian turecki, Lewis Howes

The world needs more authentic love, yet most people sabotage their relationships before they even begin - relationship coach and author Jillian Turecki reveals why in this raw conversation about modern dating disasters. She shares her own devastating experience in an abusive relationship over 20 years ago, explaining how low self-worth drives people to choose partners who take from them rather than give to them. Through vulnerable stories about testing boundaries, surviving emotional unavailability, and learning to choose partners over projects, Jillian delivers hard truths about why love alone never sustains relationships. Anyone struggling with relationship patterns, dating anxiety, or the exhausting cycle of trying to fix broken people needs to hear these insights about building genuine partnerships based on mutual investment and emotional health.Get Jillian’s book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your LifeListen to Jillian’s podcast Jillian on LoveIn this episode you will learn:Why someone who refuses to invest time and energy in getting to know you will never be relationship materialHow to spot the difference between healthy relationship challenges and toxic patterns that drain your energyThe three relationship killers that destroy even the strongest connections and how to avoid themWhy waiting longer before becoming sexually intimate creates better long-term partnership outcomesHow to stop choosing broken people to fix and start attracting partners ready to do the workFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1805For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you’ll love:Martha Higareda Howes – greatness.lnk.to/1797SCMatthew Hussey  – greatness.lnk.to/1782SCMel Robbins – greatness.lnk.to/1761SC Get More From Lewis! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Relationship coach Jillian Turecki reveals the nine hard truths about love and why most people sabotage relationships before they begin, sharing her own experience with abuse and how to stop choosing broken people to fix. Learn the three relationship killers, signs of true investment, and why love alone never sustains partnerships in this transformative conversation about building authentic connections.

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