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Mar 23, 2026 16 min

Psychoanalytic Curiosity & Not Knowing

from Speaking Body Hosted by Neil Gorman

In this short solo episode of The Speaking Body Podcast, I (Neil Gorman) try a new format and invite listeners to email feedback about whether they like it. I explain a key difference between how psychoanalysis is practiced versus many forms of psychotherapy, coaching, or other helping relationships: when someone seeks help, they often engage in transference by supposing the helper has knowledge, authority, and power. In many cases, the helper accepts this supposition and provides advice, tools, or a treatment plan, which can be helpful. By contrast, I argue that psychoanalysts do not take up this supposition of knowledge; instead, they adopt a position of not knowing and respond with curiosity, offering hypotheses and questions rather than prescriptions. I close by noting this stance is essential to psychoanalytic work and share where to learn more at speakingbody.substack.com. --- Table of contents 00:00 Welcome and Format 00:37 Big Idea Setup 02:02 Psychotherapy Side Explained 03:34 Transference and Authority 05:32 Helper Model Benefits 06:46 Switch to Psychoanalysis 07:58 Not Taking Transference 09:19 Curiosity Over Knowing 11:41 Interpretations as Hypotheses 13:02 Continuum Not Binary 13:54 Key Takeaway and Wrap 15:17 Thanks and Where to Find

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