Pt 2: How to Recognize Signs of Mental & Emotional Abuse-S04E10

Recorded: 10/10/2021 / Published: 4/19/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology with part 2 of an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E10” Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM OverviewYou probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.Psychological abuse involves a person’s attempts to frighten, control, or isolate you. It’s in the abuser’s words and actions, as well as their persistence in these behaviors.The abuser could be your spouse or other romantic partner. They could be your business partner, parent, or a caretaker.No matter who it is, you don’t deserve it and it’s not your fault. Continue reading to learn more, including how to recognize it and what you can do next.- Accusing, blaming, and denialThis behavior comes from an abuser’s insecurities. They want to create a hierarchy in which they’re at the top and you’re at the bottom.Here are some examples:- Emotional neglect and isolationAbusers tend to place their own emotional needs ahead of yours. Many abusers will try to come between you and people who are supportive of you to make you more dependent on them. They do this by:- CodependenceA codependent relationship is when everything you do is in reaction to your abuser’s behavior. And they need you just as much to boost their own self-esteem. You’ve forgotten how to be any other way. It’s a vicious circle of unhealthy behavior. You might be codependent if you: - Next week we will will wrap up this conversation by talking about what professionals suggest people in these types of relationships recommend doing. In the meantime, If you need help contact the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at 800-799-7233. 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