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EPISODE · Sep 10, 2026 · 1H 20M

Q&A! Confessing To Cheating A Decade Later & Crushing On Your BFF's Boyfriend - Ep 489

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions!You're happily married with kids but you carry a secret from a decade ago, before starting a family. Is it worth rocking the boat to tell the truth all these years later? If you like your coworker but hate how she ALWAYS cuts you off, what's the best way to fix her social faux-pas? Your mother-in-law keeps cornering you to trauma dump—how do you draw the line between devoted daughter-in-law and de facto therapist? And what to do when you can't stop crushing on your best friend's dashing boyfriend? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off on home and sleepwear!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP!- Go to https://squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:48 - Q1: My Coworker Always Cuts Me Off—How Do I Handle This?11:30 - Q2: It Has Been 10 Years Since I Cheated—To Confess Or Not To Confess?37:35 - Q3: I Have A Crush On My Best Friend’s Boyfriend—Help!58:53 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Treats Me Like Her Therapist—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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