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EPISODE · Feb 23, 2025 · 1H 25M

Questioning Your Church? 5 Signs It Could Be Unhealthy with Ralph Brickley - EP78

from Grace Escape · host Justin and Tiffany

Many assume that if a church is full of passionate believers, it must be healthy. But what if the passion is fueled by control? What if the message is wrapped in fear, guilt, and manipulation? In this episode of the Grace Escape, Justin and Tiffany sit down with Ralph Brickley, author of DivideTheWord.blog to discuss his article, “Finding Freedom: What Is an Unhealthy Church?”,  and the five warning signs you can use as indicators. From silencing questions to financial manipulation, they examine the red flags that show up in high-control religious environments and how you can find freedom in Christ outside of them. If you’ve ever felt pressured, shamed, or obligated to obey a pastor rather than follow Jesus, this episode is for you. It’s time to separate faith from fear and walk in the true grace and freedom that Christ offers.In vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men. You leave the commandment of God and hold to the tradition of men. - Mark 7:7-8 ESVLast Week: When Preaching Turns Toxic: Exposing Verbal Abuse in the Church - EP77Playlists:Examining PentecostalismThe Church BuildingHoliness StandardsThe “MOG” (Man of God)All About The Money⁠Abuse In The Pulpit⁠Podcast Playlist⁠ - YoutubeShow Links:DivideTheWord.blogFinding Freedom: What Is An Unhealthy Church?The Didache PDF (But if he ask for money, he is a false prophet. Pg. 8 #6)Anthony Mangun - “if the devil can get you questioning”Jordan Copeland - “don’t doubt in the dark”Dan Smelser - “most important nerve in your body”Steve Fackler - “polish the pastor’s shoes”Resources:B.I.T.E. Model ⁠Website B.I.T.E. Model ⁠Free PDFBook: Toxic FaithBook: The Subtle Power of Spiritual AbuseBooks: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church PracticesConnect with us!⁠⁠⁠⁠http://graceescapepod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Send us an email!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠X (Twitter)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠InstagramDISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.

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Many assume that if a church is full of passionate believers, it must be healthy. But what if the passion is fueled by control? What if the message is wrapped in fear, guilt, and manipulation? In this episode of the Grace Escape, Justin and Tiffany sit down with Ralph Brickley, author of DivideTheWord.blog to discuss his article, “Finding Freedom: What Is an Unhealthy Church?”,  and the five warning signs you can use as indicators. From silencing questions to financial manipulation, they examine the red flags that show up in high-control religious environments and how you can find freedom in Christ outside of them. If you’ve ever felt pressured, shamed, or obligated to obey a pastor rather than follow Jesus, this episode is for you. It’s time to separate faith from fear and walk in the true grace and freedom that Christ offers.In vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men. You leave the commandment of God and hold to the tradition of men. - Mark 7:7-8 ESVLast Week: When Preaching Turns Toxic: Exposing Verbal Abuse in the Church - EP77Playlists:Examining PentecostalismThe Church BuildingHoliness StandardsThe “MOG” (Man of God)All About The Money⁠Abuse In The Pulpit⁠Podcast Playlist⁠ - YoutubeShow Links:DivideTheWord.blogFinding Freedom: What Is An Unhealthy Church?The Didache PDF (But if he ask for money, he is a false prophet. Pg. 8 #6)Anthony Mangun - “if the devil can get you questioning”Jordan Copeland - “don’t doubt in the dark”Dan Smelser - “most important nerve in your body”Steve Fackler - “polish the pastor’s shoes”Resources:B.I.T.E. Model ⁠Website B.I.T.E. Model ⁠Free PDFBook: Toxic FaithBook: The Subtle Power of Spiritual AbuseBooks: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church PracticesConnect with us!⁠⁠⁠⁠http://graceescapepod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Send us an email!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠X (Twitter)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠InstagramDISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.

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