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EPISODE · Sep 8, 2026 · 9 MIN

Questions (IQ): 3 Hidden Patterns That Can Create Hurt, Rejection, or Disconnection in Relationships (IQ. 278)

from Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™

Have you ever found yourself wanting more love, attention, or connection in a relationship… but somehow feeling like the more you try, the more hurt, rejected, or disconnected you feel? Sometimes it is not because you do not care enough. Sometimes there are hidden emotional patterns operating underneath the surface that can unintentionally create the opposite of what you want. In this episode, Brandy shares 3 subtle relationship patterns that can quietly create more hurt, rejection, or disconnection—even when what you genuinely want is more love and closeness. These patterns can be surprisingly easy to miss because they may come from a very understandable desire to feel loved, valued, connected, or understood. In this episode, you'll discover: 3 hidden patterns that can create hurt, rejection, or disconnection in relationships Why some attempts to create more closeness can unexpectedly have the opposite effect How unresolved hurt and frustration can influence the way we connect How deeper emotional patterns can quietly shape relationship dynamics How shifting what is happening underneath can help create more love, freedom, and connection Sometimes the pattern creating disconnection is not the obvious one. And once you begin to recognize what is really happening underneath, you can start creating a very different experience in your relationships.   Free Mind-Body Healing Training If you'd like a deeper understanding of mind-body healing and how self-healing works: Click here to join the FREE training. Brandy Gillmore's Mind-Body Healing: Scientific Research If you'd like scientific research on mind-body healing, you can view Brandy Gillmore's work published in a Medical Journal. Personal Empowerment and Self-Healing Courses If you're ready to heal yourself and change your life: Click here to explore our GIFT Mind-Body Healing™ and the GIFT Method™ Courses and GIFT Workshops.   Connect With Brandy Follow Brandy on Facebook Follow Brandy on Instagram Questions? Discover more at https://brandygillmore.com or email [email protected]   Important Note: This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please continue to consult your doctor or qualified healthcare provider as recommended. Click here to view our full disclaimer- https://brandygillmore.com/terms/. © Brandy Gillmore / Human Potential Revolution, Inc. All Rights Reserved. This podcast and all related content are provided solely for personal, noncommercial use. No portion may be copied, recorded, transcribed, closely paraphrased, adapted, repackaged, distributed, taught, or used to create or support any course, coaching program, training, certification, product, service, or derivative content without prior written permission. This content may not be uploaded to, entered into, stored in, used by, or incorporated into any artificial-intelligence, machine-learning, voice-cloning, digital-replica, data-training, or related system. By accessing, listening to, viewing, downloading, or otherwise using this content, you agree to our Intellectual Property and Content Use Terms. If you do not agree, do not access or use the content. Full Terms: https://brandygillmore.com/content-terms  Permissions: [email protected]   

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