Questions To Ask Before You Say “I DO.” | Be Transformed Podcast

In this conversation, Dr. Lanre Olusola emphasizes the importance of asking the right questions before entering into a marriage. He discusses various categories of questions that couples should explore, including relationship status, values, spirituality, sexual compatibility, and family dynamics. The conversation highlights the significance of self-reflection and emotional intelligence in building a strong foundation for marriage. Dr. Olusola also outlines five essential pillars for a successful relationship, encouraging individuals to engage in deep conversations to avoid future regrets.TakeawaysAsking the right questions is crucial before marriage.Questions reveal the true nature of a partner.Understanding values is key to compatibility.Spiritual beliefs shape relationship dynamics.Sexual compatibility is essential for intimacy.Family background influences relationship success.Observing behavior provides deeper insights.Self-reflection is necessary before committing.Friendship and acceptance are foundational for marriage.Emotional intelligence is vital for a healthy relationship.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Relationship Conversations03:31 The Importance of Questions in Relationships08:49 Critical Categories of Questions Before Marriage13:25 Understanding Relationship and Marital Status15:25 Exploring Values and Beliefs16:49 Religion and Spirituality in Relationships18:49 The Role of Sex in Marriage21:20 Family and Friends: The Social Context of Marriage25:34 Personality and Behavior in Relationships27:08 Navigating Financial Conversations in Relationships29:27 Health and Well-Being: Essential Questions31:37 Aligning Visions for the Future34:31 The Importance of Observation in Relationships38:00 Self-Reflection: Questions to Ask Yourself41:28 Five Pillars of a Strong Marriage44:39 Understanding Red Flags vs. Growth Areas51:23 Affirmations for a Purposeful Relationship*To get The Catalyst’s 50 Secrets.* Click here https://bit.ly/50secretsofsuccess*Other resources:*• The Catalyst Courses• The Catalyst eBooks• The Catalyst Meditation • The Catalyst Affirmation Click here to access: https://catalystng.selar.co*Get certified in OLCA Coaching Ltd* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*OLCA Coaching Ltd 2025 Course Calendar* https://bit.ly/OLCACAL2025*The Catalyst 2025 Programs*  https://bit.ly/TheCatalyst2025Programs*Follow The Catalyst on Social Media**Instagram* : https://www.instagram.com/lanreolusola*Clubhouse* : https://tinyurl.com/BeTransformedTribeCH*Twitter* : https://x.com/lanreolusola*Tiktok* : https://www.tiktok.com/@lanre_olusola*Facebook* : https://facebook.com/TheCatalystLO#BeTransformedPodcast #DrLanreOlusola  #MarriageGoals #RelationshipAudit #Relationships