EPISODE · Nov 27, 2023 · 37 MIN
Radiant Thinking And Self Awareness
from Imperfect Mens Club · host Mark Aylward & Jim Gurule
Mark begins by summarizing the last episode about the IMC framework and philosophy He then introduces the concept of "radiant thinking" Jim shares that he discovered radiant thinking while seeking answers about his dyslexia Mark reads the definition of radiant thinking Mark brings up agency and how we function as agents at IMC Mark speculates that most people don't self reflect and those that do are triggered by events He states that true self awareness is a life long journey Jim talks about the evolution of the IMC "The imperfection Is The Perfection" What happens to us does not define us…how we react does Mark says personal accountability (self-accountability) is the whole deal…the foundation…the juice Jim brings up self-alignment. Radiant thinking is alignment Life is not linear, it's radiant Jim shares how he thinks the brain works Mark talks about communicating in a moment. Empathetic listening involves self awareness When serving others, you begins with empathy and self awareness Jim speaks of living in the present…leading to self control Fear comes from the past and the future Mark shares a recruiter training story about projection - the 90/10 rule of self awareness Jim says people are seeking people with order and control Mark asks Jim when he became self-aware and Jim identifies as an inventor He struggled with communication until he discovered his dyslexia and now he leans on new technology to communicate Mark asks Jim more about how his mind works Mark talks about how to speak with different people in different circumstances Women and men think different…and that's a good thing…the world needs everybody Mark reflects on a misunderstanding he had with Jim just before the show Jim talks about using Chat GPT for foundational work Mark brings up the time he questioned his faith and he recognized how self awareness is a gift Jim brings up some conversations with his daughter about being a different person as he grew Conversations don't need to be right or wrong. No winner and no loser The need to be right diminishes over time…or it should Mark talks about his son's addiction and recovery and the amazing self awareness that has come into his life Mark puts the IMC program in the context of self awareness Jim pulls agency back into the conversation Most good things come from bad things - Mark Jr's collapsed lung and recovery Most people just need a little nudge - that what we do at IMC Jim says he really appreciates people who can laugh at themselves Mark jokes about how your kids start turning the tables on you as they become adults Jim wanted to let his daughter know he's a different person now - humanizing him Jim asks Mark…what are your "selves"…he strives for authenticity Jim ends with self worth and self love and gets a few laughs
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