"Rayvin Rey: Overcoming Scarcity, Embracing Patience, & Finding Your Soulmate” EP050 (Pt. 2)

In part two of our conversation with Rayvin Rey, we explore powerful insights on overcoming scarcity mindsets and embracing patience in personal growth. Rayvin shares her thoughts on finding alignment outside of relationships, balancing happiness with financial success, and breaking free from childhood beliefs about money. We discuss how physical activity can help manage stress, the importance of authentic self-expression, and the value of building a supportive community. Rayvin opens up about self-love, giving yourself the care you often seek from others, and nurturing meaningful relationships through attention, space, and listening. She also shares lessons from “The Alchemist” and her take on staying true to yourself, all while reflecting on the deeper meaning of love and how being your own soulmate is the foundation for everything. This episode is packed with wisdom, inspiration, and heartfelt moments you won’t want to miss!Support Rayvin on her website: https://rayvinrey.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayvin_rey/Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@rayvinrey24And support her podcast "The Self Love Sanctuary" here: https://open.spotify.com/show/5TxW0FumW1ZkNFdsItSGwZor hereTimestamps:00:45 Changing the view around your 9 to 5 job and fulfilling your passions3:30 Getting in alignment with yourself outside of a relationship4:30 What’s more important? Happy relationships or making money?6:00 Focusing on lack and losing the “must be nice” mentality8:00 Fighting back against the money and scarcity beliefs that you grew up around13:00 The struggle of striving to make something you love doing profitable14:00 Regulating your attention span in a world of quick gratification16:15 Patience with yourself and how it applies to personal growth19:45 Using physical activity to handle mental stress25:00 Sharing authentically while trying to improve, learn, and grow a community27:30 "You don’t want 50 million fans. You want 5,000 people who care."29:20 Lessons from Russ, Mike, and "The Alchemist" on being true to yourself35:50 Conquering hard things is in the little things40:00 Shameless plug for Whoop45:30 Nighttime wind-down routine with stream-of-consciousness journaling48:00 Giving yourself the love you desire so badly from others in relationships51:30 The expression of love by listening to your partner’s podcast (if they have one)55:30 True love is giving your partner the space they need59:00 Conquering the shame of hurting someone the way you were hurt1:02:00 The power of showing your partner attention1:10:00 Should we call this episode “How to Find Your Soulmate?”1:14:00 Your soulmate is yourself1:15:00 Rayvin’s councilJoin our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotionshttps://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepodJoin Whoop with our promotional code and get your first month free!https://join.whoop.com/us/en/Whothoughtwedbeherepod/Sign up for online therapy with our referral link.Get 20% off your first month with our podcast's link:Shout out to our favorite neighborhood screen printer JOKER INK  https://www.jokerink.com/NEW EPISODES WEEKLY!"Who Thought We'd Be Here?" is hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. https://linktr.ee/whothoughtwedbeherepodPlease Like, Follow, Share, and Enjoy!!!