Reclaiming My Birthday—And Every Other Date That Tried to Break Me

IT'S MY 50TH EPISODE!Thank you so much for being here! If you're reading this, send me a message on Instagram and let me know how long you've been listening and what episode has impacted you the most. Bonus points: Let me know what topics you'd like to hear discussed in future episodes or maybe another creator you'd like to come on the show with me for an episode. <3I just turned 37… and if I’m being honest, it hit different. In today’s episode, I’m getting personal and sharing what this birthday brought up for me: grief, growth, reflection, and the powerful act of reclaiming my story.I talk about how I’ve taken back painful dates like Valentine’s Day, my separation anniversary, and New Year’s Eve, and turned them into moments of celebration, healing, and bold self-expression. Whether you’re going through a breakup, navigating a life transition, or just feeling like you’re not where you “should” be, I hope this episode reminds you: you get to rewrite the story.[00:00–01:17] I’m back! Why I’ve been MIA and why this episode had to come first[01:18–02:34] I just turned 37 and wanted to make this one personal[02:34–04:20] Aging has been hard for me — especially post-divorce[04:20–06:08] Remembering that aging is a privilege & reflecting on friends I’ve lost[06:08–07:26] My mental health and confidence are so much stronger than last year[07:26–09:07] Let’s talk about reclaiming painful dates and rewriting our stories[09:07–10:48] I didn’t choose the divorce, but I chose how I would show up after it[10:48–12:12] A moment with my coach that helped me rise instead of stay stuck[12:12–13:53] Reclaiming Valentine’s Day with a community event (and cute pajamas)[13:53–15:12] Taking a solo trip on the anniversary of my separation[15:12–17:00] Coming out as poly & reclaiming NYE with my favorite artist[17:00–19:00] Riding on the SoulCycle podium on Valentine’s Day — healing through movement and music[19:00–21:18] You don’t need a partner to feel proud of your life[21:18–22:44] From dread to intention: how to plan for hard days and make them yours[22:44–24:20] Bold choices have helped me heal faster — and they can help you, too[24:20–25:45] What I’m celebrating now: turning 37, my 100th SoulCycle ride, and being excited againJoin my community:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christyleefit/Need help with your goals this year? Apply to work with me here.