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EPISODE · Feb 5, 2026 · 58 MIN

Redefining Sexy as We Age - Outgrowing Old Versions of Ourselves EP 733

from Talk About Gay Sex TAGSPODCAST · host Stephen V.Rodriguez

What used to turn you on that now feels toxic? How do you define healthy desire now? Have your patterns in love changed? What does ‘hot’ feel like when you’re fully present? What does sex feel like when it’s no longer about validation? Hot Topic: $350 per month for the new Edge tier on Grindr??? Hot Topic: 16k Floridians expected to lose HIV meds? Hot Topic: New data shows gay and bi people don't live as long as our counterparts... Hot Topic: Not everyone wants kids...we discuss Advice to listener: Listener has MS and recently broke up with partner and isn't interested in being friends... Advice: Only interested in hooking up after spending some time with the person first... Thirst Trap: First of the year and we're picking who took the hottest NSFW image this wee! Visit: Feb 5 - Feb. 17 Get 20% Off Steve V's new app - Studio.com/stevev for the website version and visit the app version: Studio.com/stevev/connect Follow Stevie on IG: @iam_stevev Follow Kodi on IG: @mistahmaurice Rate and Review us! Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS! Visit our website: tagspodcast.com Needs some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contact Follow Of a Certain Age on IG: @ofacertainagepod Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Sex the live edition Host Steve V and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with an all new Sex Talk, Hot Topics, Advice and Thirst Trap! We talk about evolving like it’s exciting — but no one talks about the grief. The Hosts share What they had to let go of to grow. They share a version of themselves that they miss. And, what part of our sexual self that haunts us if any... Earlier we talked about outgrowing old versions of ourselves — sexually, emotionally, identity-wise. But here’s the real question:
What happens after you change? Who do you become in your relationships?
In your sex life?
In your boundaries? Because growth isn’t just a personal shift — it changes how you love, how you choose, and how you connect. Part 2 isn’t about who we used to be.
It’s about who we are now… and what we’re building from this place. So let’s talk about the after.
The grief.
The relief.
The new rules. And what it really means to love as the evolved version of yourself.

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