Relationships. After Rock Bottom. From nearly divorced to in love again Aston & Adam Simmonds

Send us Fan Mail“Would You Want Your Daughter to Marry a Man Like You?”When Aston asked Adam that question, his answer was immediate.“No. F**k no.”It was a turning point.Not just in their marriage but in how they saw themselves. As partners. As parents. As people.Aston and Adam Simmonds take us deep into the trenches of a relationship on the brink,  from silence and resentment to radical honesty and transformation.They didn’t just save their marriage.They rebuilt themselves.What followed was brutal accountability, uncomfortable growth, and a complete rewiring of what it means to be a partner, a parent, a man, a woman,  and most importantly, a whole human being.Now they guide thousands through Save My Marriage School, and their Recreate Your Relationship Retreat, but this episode? This is where they strip it all back.This convo is for you if: 👉  You feel like you’re roommates, not lovers. 👉  You’ve been pretending everything’s fine for far too long. 👉  You’re scared of what your kids are learning by watching you. 👉  You’re starting to realise: It’s not them. It’s me. 👉  You don’t need another relationship hack. 👉  You need to get honest. 00:00 - Trailer.01:40 - Introduction: Who is Adam?03:40 - Who is Aston and How Did You Get to Know Each Other?07:55 - What Shaped You into the People You Are?13:30 - Where/When Did You See Challenges in the Relationship?20:20 - When Did You Realise You Weren't Being the Best Father You Could Be?26:00 - Showing Up When It Matters.28:55 - How Should Men Deal with Becoming New Fathers and Their New Life as a Father?31:15: - The Parenting Blue Print Has Shifted... What Do We Need to do Today?38:50 - What was the Definition of a Successful Relationship When Things Were Not so Good?44:20 - Adam, Was There a Lack of a Mother Figure Growing Up?47:45 - Doing the Inner Work.57:10 - When was There the Light Bulb Moment for You, Adam?1:02:20 - Taking 100% Responsibility.1:08:20 - Strong Women and Being Brave.1:12:40 - Be The Example - Choose Yourself!1:16:20 - The Coffee Check-in.1:19:40 - What Other Barriers Get in the Way of Building Strong Relationships?1:22:50 - Eye Gazing Connection Techniques.1:25:50 - Don't Get Furious, Get Curious.Get involved with Aston & Adam;Practical Relationship Tools and a 3-Day Couples Retreat to Deepen Connection, Strengthen Communication, and Recreate Your Relationship—Without ‘Trying Harder’👋 About Becky Felstead | The Resource Podcast hostBecky launched The Resource Podcast during the FIFO Inquiry to spark real talk about culture, mental health, and the hard stuff no one wants to touch. Think truth bombs, tough convos, and healing with humour.Now she’s back, flipping the script again. After 40 episodes and 15,000 mining crew later, the podcast is diving deeper into money stress, mindset shifts, relationships, and the stories we tell ourselves.Expect raw chats, zero fluff, and life-saving honesty. If you’ve ever felt stuck, broke, or burnt out, this one’s for you.Subscribe🌐 Learn more at: https://www.beckyfelstead.com/podcast📩 Reach out to Becky for podcast & speaking enquiries here: [email protected]🔗 Links & Resources //Instagram: ...