Relationships Matter More Than Programs: Christian Matthews on Mentoring Oklahoma City Youth

Most people see after-school programs as activities, games, and homework help. Christian Matthews sees something deeper. As Program Coordinator at City Center, Christian spends his days helping students navigate challenges that often have nothing to do with academics. Behind many behavioral issues are stories of loneliness, bullying, family struggles, anxiety, and a longing to be understood. In this conversation, Christian shares how God unexpectedly led him to City Center, what he's learned about loving people unconditionally, and why relationships remain the foundation of lasting transformation. He also opens up about his personal faith journey, his work as an artist and musician, and the difficult decision to step away from growing opportunities in music in order to pursue deeper obedience and spiritual growth. If you're a parent, mentor, teacher, coach, or community leader, this episode offers valuable insight into what young people need most from the adults around them. Episode Highlights • How Christian discovered his calling to work with youth • Why emotional safety matters for young people • Helping students process difficult situations at home • The connection between self-awareness and personal growth • Lessons learned through mentorship and service • Christian's journey from rapper to faith-driven artist • Why self-love and identity matter for the next generation • What gives him hope for Oklahoma City's youth Connect with Christian Instagram: @hecallsmechristian Learn More About City Center 🌐 City Center City Center champions youth and families in under-resourced communities by creating empowered pathways to relief and restoration.