Relationships on YOUR Terms

Todd is back to answer your listener questions. He breaks down the role of sexual language in verbal escalation, how to establish an open relationship and the application of game to business. 

You MUST listen if you want to:

• Sexualize your conversations
• Create and sustain open relationships
• Leverage Game to succeed in business

Show Notes:

• Listener Question: Is explicitly talking about sex necessary? [1:48]
• Do you need to kiss the girl in Game? [3:05] 
• Why you need to take more risks [5:00]
• The best strategy to sexualize the interaction [7:27] 
• How to create your ideal relationship [13:00]  
• Listener Question: How to propose an open relationship? [15:07] 
• The key to maintaining an open relationship [19:00] 
• How men and women view infidelity differently--evolutionary psychology explanation [23:54] 
• Why an open relationship is GOOD for the girl [28:22] 
• Listener Question: How can I apply game principles to business? [33:27] 
• What is the foundation of any healthy relationship? [37:20]
• The secret to successful negotiation [40:10] 
• A Game Theory model for business and personal relationships [42:32] 

Quotes:

• “Always and never shouldn’t occur often in your discussion of Game.” [3:00] 
• “Almost any particular element of Game can be left out.” [4:40] 
• “The optimal [sexualization technique] is leading the conversation in a more sexual direction, and she’ll take up the reins and lead it further.” [11:48] 
• “The best way to have a particular type of relationship is to just start having it.” [14:00] 
• “A relationship is a contract of expectations.” [19:43] 
• “Typically she’s going to care a lot more about you spending your time, attention, and resources on a girl, than she would about you having a random hookup.” [27:02]
• “As soon as you’re in a relationship for the rules of the relationship, rather than the experience of the relationship, that tends to be a less healthy relationship.”[32:24] 
• “All relationships revolve around an exchange of value.” [34:50]
• “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.” -Zig Ziglar [45:20]

Connect With Todd:

WEBSITE: toddvdating.com

YOUTUBE 1: https://bit.ly/ToddVDating

YOUTUBE 2: https://bit.ly/AskToddV

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INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/toddvdating

Todd’s upcoming digital course: verbalgameacademy.com

Submit a question for the podcast: [email protected]

Resources Mentioned: 

The System – systembytodd.com

“The Moral Animal” by Robert Wright – amzn.to/MoralAnimal

“The Red Queen” by Matt Ridley – amzn.to/RedQueenBook

“Sperm Wars” by Robin Baker – amzn.to/SpermWarsBook