Remember you were OTD in Egypt too – The night of apikorses

Religious questioning follows predictable stages: initial rejection of obvious absurdities, attempts to connect with those who've left observance, and eventual recognition that the "simple" religious person may understand something deeper than both the skeptic and the one who left. The fundamental challenge is that meaning-systems are built in layers over time—like technology built from sand to silicon to AI—and cannot be reconstructed through rational argument alone. Most people who leave Orthodox Judaism get stuck asking surface-level questions about dinosaurs or biblical criticism, while the real philosophical work requires years of lived experience that can't be compressed into a single conversation or apologetic argument.