人际：你如何知道别人是真的喜欢你

How do you know if people really like you?Christina McCaffrey, studied Psychology at Temple University (1991)Answered Sep 4If their pupils dilate when they look at you. If they lean in to chat with you. If they watch your face. If their body is in line with your body when they talk to you. Also, if they get slightly flushed in the face they may have a crush. This is how you know if you are appealing with an individual person.For a group of people, like when you are presenting something or giving a speech, it is the nods, the attention, the leaning in.Strangely I have found that when I stop caring if people will like me then they're more likely to like me. I guess my insecurity is unattractive but when I don't worry about the opinion of others I actually appear more confident and more appealing. Weird how that is.