人际：为什么有人更容易找到出众的另一半

What are the reasons why some people have an easier time finding a significant other?I just don't get why nobody ever wants to be more than friends with me. I do everything I am supposed to. I am myself, sociable and easy to approach; however, I never get anybody interested and get rejected A lot. Maybe over 10 times. People I know have it way easier. Why is this?David Galipeau, I met many therapists. I know who I am.Updated Feb 9I looked through your pictures. I can see where the problem is. You say you are easy to approach and sociable, you describe yourself on the good version of yourself. But the truth is, I’m sure if I’ll be in front of you you’ll not be as much as confident as you pretend to be.Confidence is not something you can fake. Women use confidence as a radar to trust you. You also seem to lack charisma. I can see that your smile is not genuine. You don’t seem to be very happy in your life.Charisma is very important and the good news is that you can work on it. It’s a magnet. It’s an aura. It changes everything. You appearance will not change, but you will feel different.I would also try to learn good storytelling techniques. Start classes in improv, actingand theater.Sure you can come here and say you are very good and asking why you don’t get anyone. The problem is not about where are you now. It’s about going further.In life you either stretch yourself or you stay on your back. I can hear you complain about your situation. The truth is, it won’t change a dime about where you are now.After taking a few classes in improv, acting and theater or even before. Go make mistakes.You want to be good in social relationships. Well prove it. Go to a bar with a friend and give youself a challenge of speaking to at least 5 girls. You will get rejected. See if you can go further. Repeat that exercise every week.If after 100 girls you approach you don’t get better, I can guarantee you. You message me, I give you my number and I’m paying you $1000.Everything has to do with practice. But you must be able to take risks.If you’re that serious about expanding your skills. Start writing. You’ll see the way you express yourself will change.Everywhere I go even for tanking gas I can talk to the cashier. I make jokes, I have precise words tailored for every situation. Women laugh and are attracted to me. I’ve worked for it.Start public speaking after speaking to more than 100 persons successfully, you’ll see individual relationships as a mere formality.Communication is so vast, you could spend all your life on it. Yet you’ll still have something to learn.You want to get better.Prove it.