人际：有什么征兆预示着有人在操纵你

What are the redsigns that someone is manipulating you?SHAPE \* MERGEFORMAT Chris Edwards, Selfaware Malignant Narcissist.Answered Oct 1Some redflags I have noticed are.Beingoverly nice.Being overlyflirtatious (common with women who manipulate)Agreeingand complying with almost everything you say or want with little to noresistance.Offeringto help you with everything, including giving you money, and coming on reallystrong when you’ve only just met them.Talkingabout a future with you after knowing you only a short time, and constantlythrowing around compliments towards you whilst never criticising you or tellingyou of any faults you have or any faults in your behaviour.Basicallypeople who are trying to manipulate you will attempt to present themselves asbeing the best person to come into your life, they want you to see them as ahero, your true love, the person you’ve been waiting for etc.Smartmanipulators also play on people’s inner desires, and are pretty good atspotting the things people are self conscious about, this is done to earn yourtrust quickly and thus you are going to naturally be more compliant and givingto a person that’s made you feel good about your self.Every onein the world (Who’s not psychopathic or other wise disordered) will desirelove, unconditional love, whether they admit it or not that’s what people want,they fantasise about meeting the one to take them all away from the stress oftheir lives, the “Soul mate”, followed by that is a desire for money, power,friendship, and sex.So asmart manipulator will be aware of this, and will attempt to figure out whichis more important to you, and thus they will quickly act and try and give youthat desire until they get what they want.this is asure way to spot people who are fake, and attempting to manipulate you in life,If they seem to good to be true, they most definitely are fucking with you.