Renouncing Myself Over to God

Step three of AA had me delving into my need for control, resisting change, codependency, and trying to find gratitude when I find that difficult. In this episode, I dive into the third step and what renouncing yourself, giving yourself over to god, and love can do in your life.     Key Takeaways:    [5:06] Step three of AA [10:21] Accepting all your losses, resisting change, and trying to stay in control  [18:35] Renouncing myself for attention and validation  [22:10] The things people seek love for  [24:32] Being codependent  [27:49] Doing good deeds because you want to  [30:04] False sacrifice and holding onto control  [35:04] Trying to find gratitude and religion being based on following rules [38:48] Being radically accepted for nothing  [41:10] Surrendering is a negative concept to me [42:32] Accepting our past and our mistakes [46:59] Renouncing yourself and giving yourself to god  [50:47] Working on self forgiveness  [51:33] True and unconditional love  Resources:   Breathing Underwater     Connect with Barb:   Website   Facebook    Instagram   Be a guest on the podcast    YouTube   The Molly B Foundation