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EPISODE · Mar 24, 2026 · 16 MIN

Resetting Patterns Not Goals

from Khaos & Konvos · host LaKisha Mosley

It's not about the goals. It's about the patterns.In this episode, we're talking about why goals don't create lasting change—and what does. If you set intentions in January and you're already feeling the fade, you're not failing. The goals are.We explore the difference between goals (outcomes) and patterns (behaviors), the patterns that keep high-achieving women stuck, and what it actually looks like to reset patterns instead of chasing outcomes.I share my personal story about learning to say no when things aren't in alignment—even when they seem like good opportunities. Because good opportunities aren't always the right opportunities.If you're tired of the cycle of starting strong and fading fast, this episode gives you a new framework: focus on the behavior, not the outcome.Topics covered:The patterns that keep you stuck (overcommitting, saying yes when you mean no, equating busyness with worthiness)How to identify the patterns you need to resetThe difference between goals and sustainable behavior changeWhat pattern-resetting looks like in practiceBe sure to grab your Competitive Analysis here!

Episode metadata supplied by the publisher feed · Published Mar 24, 2026

It's not about the goals. It's about the patterns.In this episode, we're talking about why goals don't create lasting change—and what does. If you set intentions in January and you're already feeling the fade, you're not failing. The goals are.We explore the difference between goals (outcomes) and patterns (behaviors), the patterns that keep high-achieving women stuck, and what it actually looks like to reset patterns instead of chasing outcomes.I share my personal story about learning to say no when things aren't in alignment—even when they seem like good opportunities. Because good opportunities aren't always the right opportunities.If you're tired of the cycle of starting strong and fading fast, this episode gives you a new framework: focus on the behavior, not the outcome.Topics covered:The patterns that keep you stuck (overcommitting, saying yes when you mean no, equating busyness with worthiness)How to identify the patterns you need to resetThe difference between goals and sustainable behavior changeWhat pattern-resetting looks like in practiceBe sure to grab your Competitive Analysis here!

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