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EPISODE · May 29, 2025 · 44 MIN

Revenge: The High That Hurts

from The Dr. Phil Podcast

What if the urge to get even isn't just emotional—but addictive? Kevin, a devoted father and minister, says the betrayal of his marriage left him in pieces—even after winning full custody and a $750,000 judgment in court when he sued his ex-wife's lover for breaking up their marriage. Dr. James Kimmel, author of "The Science of Revenge: Understanding the World's Deadliest Addiction--and How to Overcome It", joins Dr. Phil to explain how the need for revenge hijacks the brain like a drug—and why so many people get stuck in a destructive loop long after the pain has passed. Through a five-step process called the "nonjustice system," Dr. Kimmel works with Kevin to help him break free from grievance and finally reclaim his peace. Dr. Phil breaks down the emotional science of revenge, the illusion of justice, and the power of choosing healing over hatred. More: https://www.jameskimmeljr.com/ YouTube Subscribe: https://bit.ly/3H3lJ8n/ Special thanks to our sponsors! Support the brands that support us! Visit them and let them know we sent you: Preserve Gold: Visit: https://drphilgold.com/ Get a FREE precious metals guide that contains essential information on how to help protect your accounts. Text "DRPHIL" to 50505 to claim this exclusive offer from Preserve Gold today. Jase Medical: Get emergency antibiotics at https://Jase.com/ & use code PHIL for a discount Jase Medical: Get emergency antibiotics at https://Jase.com/ & use code PHIL for a discount. Ready to give MASA a try? Go to: https://MASAChips.com/MERIT/ and use code "MERIT" for 25% off your first order. Balance of Nature: Go to https://balanceofnature.com/ or call 1.800.246.8751 and get this special offer by using Discount Code: "DRPHIL". Get a FREE Fiber & Spice supplement, plus 35% OFF your first preferred set as a new Preferred Customer, with free shipping and our money-back guarantee. Start your journey with Balance of Nature.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if the urge to get even isn't just emotional—but addictive? Kevin, a devoted father and minister, says the betrayal of his marriage left him in pieces—even after winning full custody and a $750,000 judgment in court when he sued his ex-wife's lover for breaking up their marriage. Dr. James Kimmel, author of "The Science of Revenge: Understanding the World's Deadliest Addiction--and How to Overcome It", joins Dr. Phil to explain how the need for revenge hijacks the brain like a drug—and why so many people get stuck in a destructive loop long after the pain has passed. Through a five-step process called the "nonjustice system," Dr. Kimmel works with Kevin to help him break free from grievance and finally reclaim his peace. Dr. Phil breaks down the emotional science of revenge, the illusion of justice, and the power of choosing healing over hatred. More: https://www.jameskimmeljr.com/ YouTube Subscribe: https://bit.ly/3H3lJ8n/ Special thanks to our sponsors! Support the brands that support us! Visit them and let them know we sent you: Preserve Gold: Visit: https://drphilgold.com/ Get a FREE precious metals guide that contains essential information on how to help protect your accounts. Text "DRPHIL" to 50505 to claim this exclusive offer from Preserve Gold today. Jase Medical: Get emergency antibiotics at https://Jase.com/ & use code PHIL for a discount Jase Medical: Get emergency antibiotics at https://Jase.com/ & use code PHIL for a discount. Ready to give MASA a try? Go to: https://MASAChips.com/MERIT/ and use code "MERIT" for 25% off your first order. Balance of Nature: Go to https://balanceofnature.com/ or call 1.800.246.8751 and get this special offer by using Discount Code: "DRPHIL". Get a FREE Fiber & Spice supplement, plus 35% OFF your first preferred set as a new Preferred Customer, with free shipping and our money-back guarantee. Start your journey with Balance of Nature. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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