Reviving a Marriage

Message me HEREGet your mind wrapped around HOW our passion with someone dies. What is choking it out?There are tons of different reasons for problems, but they all come from the same source. You don't need them to be on board for it to change. I stopped couples therapy because I was keeping close track of the problems. It started an unhealthy process of keeping score and focusing only on whether or not it was getting worse or better and  if he was meeting my needs and I was meeting his.Coaching is what actually shifted our relationship. I went first.I took charge of what I was in control of and began to be more committed.