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OK, well, we have a lot to talk about this week. It's been a good week. Vanderpump rules. Yes.
Real Housewives of New Jersey were in the Hamptons. Yes. Lots of money talk. Real Housewives of Atlanta.
You were right about something last week. I sure was. So we'll get into that. Plus, we have interviews with Jackie Goldsnider from Real Housewives of Jersey.
You spoke with Kristen Doty. Yes. Vanderpump rules. That was fun.
And of course, we'll end with Rose and Lauren. Great. Do you want to tell everyone what else we did? That was really exciting.
We were guests on another podcast. It was sort of a change of pace for us. We always watch really crazy episodes of Bravo and then talk about it on this podcast. This time we were tasked with watching a homework movie and recapping it on the Bubbly Sash podcast.
It was super fun. We watched a movie called Love on Iceland. And if you guys love homework movies, check it out and listen to our episode. It came out earlier this week.
And it was just nice. It was very safe and comforting and happy endings. It was unlike the Real Housewives of Orange County trip to Iceland, but there was pickle tearing. OK, Real Housewives of Jersey were in the Hamptons.
Not only are we in the Hamptons, but we're going to topping Rose. Which is where the Real Housewives of New York go all the time when they're in the Hamptons. I know. I feel like there's a lot of crossover with Jersey and New York because it's kind of a thing where Jersey always uses New York as their vacation or whatever.
I mean, it's just easier. Or I guess people go to the Jersey Shore and whatnot too, but for a little luxury living. I also have a theory that it's like the one restaurant in the Hamptons that will allow filming. Because I remember watching a spinoff.
It was like a Courtney and Chloe take the Hamptons. Come on, keeping up with the Kardashians, obviously. And they showed how people in the Hamptons were like, get out. We don't want you here.
It was for allowing us to put our cameras in there. I wanted to point out at the beginning of the episode, Teresa is our second Bravo Liberty of late who did not know who Charles Manson was. Teresa Charles Manson never did anything to me. I'm not going to bring him into my friend group.
Do you know what I'm saying? I don't know what Charles Manson. Remember last season, Raquel was like, I don't know who that is. It's just very upsetting on so many levels.
I feel like I knew who Charles Manson was when I was a child. Like just from the news. It's like pop culture, like all of it. It is.
It's up there with Marilyn Monroe in terms of just like pop culture. It's place in pop culture. But also Margaret was wrong too. She described him as a murderer.
Technically no. I'm not sure. I'm sure you didn't. I'm sure you didn't.
A lot of people did. There was like a Sharon Tate movie. Didn't watch it. Yes.
Heard of it. Because again, I pay attention to Teresa. I want to talk about the idea of money talks and wealth whispers. This came up on last season of Mary to Madison to Buffy said it.
We're kind of seeing that with Jackie this season. I will say that that also came up during the Sazza to Sonya. I think it was her first season on the house of New York. Jackie is loaded.
We still don't know how much. Well, you will hear a little bit later on. She tells me how much is in her chest. She did not.
I was very careful to not be like Jennifer even though I wanted to sit here and be like Jennifer and just ask her all of these questions to find out. I got into how many properties do you have or what's your favorite property? We talked a little bit. Really she talks about how she just really learned how to invest.
She was very lucky to have her parents. They did really well. They came from nothing. Did really well.
And kind of set her up to have a successful future which is great. You'll hear her talk a little bit more about that. It's interesting because last season we really didn't get too much of a glimpse into her life and how much money she might have. But now we're seeing this Hampton's home and you'll hear her interview later.
She's got some pennies. Yeah. On one hand I think that there's something cute about the fact that Jennifer is a little grown in candy store and she's like, I want to tell everybody about her money. Wait a second.
Are your panties moist? What's going on? But on the other hand it's like, no. That is so not okay to ask.
Right. I mean if they were closer and it wasn't in front of everyone and it was sort of like, let's be real with each other. Girl to girl, that's one thing. But it's sort of like Jackie's not going to just start telling everybody all this stuff in front of everyone.
Like no. I'm in New York and I feel like people are a lot more how much do you pay and rent. And that really freaked me out in the beginning. I'm like, who talks about that?
Right. I mean I don't even want to admit it to myself. Right. Well you know it's just like really throwing money away.
So I mean yeah it is interesting how these conversations come up because also even like in the workplace sometimes you know finding out how much other people make or whatever like it's not really talked about but sometimes I feel like it should be in certain instances. So you can kind of just like base what you're doing on you know other information but I don't know. It is tacky I think in a situation like this for Jennifer to be asking the way she is. Yes.
I got what Melissa was saying at the end. Did you? I mean like she was saying again she was saying she was sticking up for Jackie and saying to Jennifer look she's the one winning here. She isn't spending crazy amounts of money on parties.
We're the idiots that are just like throwing cash around. She's going to be her kids are going to be set up for life. And then it's like everyone got real like up in arms like why are you throwing me into this but it's true what you're saying. Yeah.
Guess who's winning? This motherf***er right here. You talk about because she's a saber. She's very smart.
She's not about the show. In the long run. You watch who's children are set up in 30 years. Where's the loser?
She's winning. Well then you know Jennifer is just like a runaway train. When she gets going she can't stop and then I think she says a lot of things that she regrets. And we see her taking some digs at Jackie and then with what Melissa says she throws it back and like well what you think my kids aren't going to be set up for the future and just kind of blows it a little bit more out of proportion than it needs to be but it's just like when that tequila hits Jennifer is just she goes off.
Yeah. And I kind of felt bad for Jackie because you could see she was getting really upset about it and like you could see the fire in her eyes of being like how dare you come for like my children's birthday party because really at the end of the day you know what that Jackie says is like don't throw a party for your neighbors throw a party for your kids and if your kids ask for pizza and just whatever and like they don't care about an Amazon box that's sitting in the driveway that has goodies in it like they're kids they're going to take it. It doesn't have to be this over the topic straving it look at this slide look at this pool look at this trampoline and I feel like Jennifer just doesn't really know how else to do things if they're not like over the top. Yeah.
And that's part of her personality too so I mean you can't really fault her for that but she shouldn't be critical of Jackie. Also I just thought it was sort of a stretch for Margaret to bring it back to food issues. Yeah. I think Margaret thought that too after she said it.
Probably. Because it just I don't think it is related. Yeah. At all.
I got the chance to talk to Real Housewives of New Jersey's Jackie Goldsnighter and she revealed where her family money comes from her reaction to Danielle's stop announcing that she's leaving Real Housewives of New Jersey and where she currently stands friendship wise with Jennifer Aiden plus she shares what it's like having the hottest house husband Evan. Here's that interview. Guys we are here with Jackie Goldsnighter she is back. Hello everyone I'm great.
Happy New Year. Happy New Year to you. How long can we say that for? I don't know that's I feel like it's the first time you see a person in the New Year.
Yeah. Right. So before we get into the Hamptons I want to go back a little bit because last time you were here we talked about your dad and the comments that he was making about the video that you guys watched. So what was the fan reaction to that episode?
Well the way that the commercial showed it showed him responding it was worth it to me saying I almost died. So he was like Jackie I know I didn't say that and he was really upset about it but when that episode played out you see that he said it's almost worth it when I said you know I had to you know I spent years not eating and like it was really hard for me and that you know it's not that much better that he said it then but it wasn't in response to I almost died. But fans had a very harsh reaction about it initially they said it was an awful thing to say to your daughter and I felt very defensive for my father because in part it was my fault. I had never shared with him when I was going through it was our secret about it.
In general I don't tend to err my dirty laundry if I'm still struggling with something I do it and I get through it how I can and I really didn't tell my parents what I was going through so I'm not surprised that he didn't know that he would think it's worth it to have to work really hard in order to achieve a great body. Of course. Yeah well on the flip side like as a parent what have the conversations been like for you with your kids? Right but it definitely opened up a lot of conversations about eating healthy and watching what you eat and also how to eat things that maybe aren't so healthy and that's okay but balance it with a good amount of exercise all the things I didn't know growing up really I mean my parents both worked full time no one was around teaching me this stuff so when I wanted to lose weight I just really stopped eating and I bought some melvichy melba toast and cottage cheese and that's all I ate for a long time.
So I opened up a lot of conversations for me to explain to them about how to maintain a balance and why it's so important to be outside exercising so it's been very helpful in my own real life. Yeah we also talked last time about the Jamaica trip and you were not aware of the conversations that were happening about eating habits so what was your reaction when you finally saw that episode? You know I feel like I've sort of been like outed because I do still have issues and that's why you know some people you know might say oh that you can sort of in her past like why is it relevant now but it's really something that I still struggle with and so I've come a very long way in terms of eating meals I used to not eat any meals at restaurants I like would push my food around drink water and not eat anything so the way it now is a thousand times better but I still struggle a lot I can't I can't let go of a lot of the restrictions that I have on myself and I think you see that clearly in Jamaica and at first I was a little bit embarrassed but then I realized that there's so many women who probably struggle with this too that I was happy to be you know bringing it bringing it out. Yeah let's fast forward a little bit I want to talk about we get to the Hamptons.
Theresa walks in what's the vibe in the room because she launches right into Margaret? Yeah I thought that the Hamptons is such a happy place I always go with my kids and my family and like we get there and like everyone's just in a good mood you're on the beach the sun is shining so I thought it would be a great place. Legit thought that everyone would get there and be like oh let's like put this to bed let's hug it out you know but Theresa came in and she was just pissed I guess I don't know Theresa really as well as I think I do because she is just angry sometimes and like doesn't want to let it go. Yeah so yeah the vibe definitely changed because me and Melissa and Margaret out there when me and Melissa and Margaret are together we're very like let's drink let's have a good time let's party and like the vibe definitely changed when Theresa came in she was pissed.
Why do you think at that point Theresa was still siding with Danielle given her friendship with Margaret? I think at the point that she walked in the house she was so upset about not being invited to Margaret's Mother's Day branch that of course she's going to side with Danielle. Yeah you know Theresa seems to be the type of person that if you haven't hurt her she has nothing against you and that's exactly what it was with Danielle. Right it was more so that she was just like upset with Margaret so she just like had to be on Danielle side.
Plus she spends a lot of time with Danielle so she knows Danielle's side of it she's getting a lot from you know her ears constantly with Danielle. So she knows the way Danielle feels about it not the way Margaret really feels about it. Speaking of Danielle what was your reaction to her announcement that she's leaving the show? I was like not surprised at all.
I was surprised that she had the audacity to make that announcement it's like okay tell us something we didn't know but yeah I wasn't surprised but I'm eager to see how her cooking shows go up. Me too. So when we're in the Hamptons the whole conversation comes up about money and family money so can you share a little bit about where your family money comes from you said your parents worked full time growing up so where did that come from? Okay so my parents both came from absolutely nothing my father grew up in the projects in Brooklyn and my mother grew up in Israel and came over here at 13 years old she didn't speak any English she her parents had not a penny they moved in with relatives in Brooklyn and my mother ended up graduating valedictorian of her high school and she went to Brooklyn College and she started a computer software consulting firm when she was in her I believe her late 20s early 30s and she ended up writing a lot of the software that huge companies were using like loosens and everything she was I love looking at her college yearbook because she was the only woman in the entire economics chapter of the yearbook all the women were in the education section and it was just her and like 200 men in the economics section I thought it was so awesome and my parents were very smart about it my father also did very well for himself and they and my mom everything that they made together they started investing and they invested in the stocks and in real estate and they really did amazingly well for themselves so anybody that I was going to marry was going to have to sign a pre-knock right and of course Evan was you know he came from somebody too and he was so smart he got a MBA from Georgetown he went to the University of Michigan he was killing it in finance and so it seemed funny to make him sign a pre-knock but we both didn't care because we don't live off that money at all we don't touch it at all but I do come from money but you wouldn't know it like until this week you almost think that on the poor cast member because you know I like I tossed an Amazon box at my kid but I didn't grow up like by the time my parents really started making money I was already like a teenager I was already almost like 13 years old so I grew up in a little house in Staten Island and like I was you know I was a scruffy kid you know like I didn't really have any of my parents for a few dollars to go into town by Swedish so I didn't like so the way I am money to me is not what makes you an impressive person or an admirable person so it's not something that you break about you know and I buy things I do spend money but I just don't flash it all over Instagram because I find it happy so did you learn about investing from your parents like is that where you got a lot of your tips well I'm also kind of smart and so I knew that so anytime that the trust I knew I didn't want to live off this trust yeah I knew that I wanted to make my own living and I knew I wanted to be a lawyer and Evan and I do very well together I did well as a lawyer and then once when when the trust would give me some money I didn't take anything I would put it I would invest everything in real estate so anytime I would get something for 20 years I would invest in real estate and my real estate holdings have really really done well so I don't liquidate anything I don't sell anything yeah but real estate wise we're doing well but we don't live on any of that money right but I do have it I mean I do have a trust fund yeah so I won't ask you how many properties you have but I will ask do you have a favorite property that we haven't seen on the show yet most of my properties are in Manhattan okay so the only property and I don't touch any of them and actually when Evan and I bought the Hampton's house I had trust money and I said do you want to go in together and buy this together as an investment and he was into that so that's why we own that one together and it's probably the only one you would see because I don't ever go near any of the other ones they just went to Mount something else you don't know I run a small real estate management company so I manage all of those properties but I have some apartments in Manhattan that are fabulous I guess my favorite one is the one where I used to live so now I run that one out I did live in it for a little while and I had my first two kids there in the city it's on the upper side so that one holds a special place because when I look at that second bedroom I envision two little kids and my babies in there so that one's my career but the Hampton's house I mean nothing yeah I mean I know it there so do you think when all this comes out there's this revelation almost about this money do you think Jennifer's opinion of you kind of change well I think Jennifer is very is very impressed by money yeah and I think that she now views me as oh my god what's wrong with her why isn't she spending this money which is a total misconception because I spend the money I just don't show it off I mean if you look in my closet you'll see probably double the amount of Chanel bags that Jennifer has but I would never put that on Instagram like because it's not it's just tacky you know I'm not even even saying that it's just that like when I said courtside at the next I don't put it on Instagram and Jennifer that would be her like story of the week you know so I think she's kind of like what's wrong with you why aren't you spending your money so she just can't understand she's very confused and then she makes the comments about a husband needs to be smarter than his wife so I think there's a lot of very old-fashioned thinking around Jennifer's way of life and so I don't want to judge it you know so I'm trying not to judge it because I think it's ingrained in her from generations of Middle Eastern culture and I don't know anything about that right well even at this dinner you know I mean we've seen a couple different sides of Jennifer this season just in regards of talking to her mom about her brother's sexuality and so one minute you're like Jen is you know she has a big heart she really cares about people and in the next minute she sort of you know spirals out of control and starts talking to you with this dinner about how you're like cheap yeah so like what is that how did you react to her at the at the lunch you mean oh yeah yeah that really got under my skin I can tolerate a lot before I explode but when you imply that I am that I'm taking things away from my children my own benefit and spending the money on myself instead then a you clearly don't understand the type of money that I have because buying my kids food wouldn't take anything away from me yeah but b first of all you didn't see that there was a whole sandwich platter in my kitchen but when a party is from one o'clock to three o'clock in your driveway and it's a drop off party how much food do you really need to supply to adults that's just not the way that I throw parties I don't care about impressing anybody I had sandwiches in the kitchen I had a vegetable tray also I had a lot of wine but my main focus at the party is what the kids will like and what makes the kids happy so when she implied that I checked out on this party it like I really try hard in and out of the scene I really try hard to like Jennifer and I just I just can't yeah I'm sorry and I'm happy to say that because I really I'm being authentic I try really hard and in her good moments I'm like she's not that bad and then she just opens her mouth and something really awful comes out yeah so where are you with Jennifer right now not in a very good place I was trying to Jennifer at all and it started with that video yeah it really did this summer we were friends we were even gonna take our daughters together in July to a concert to Jojo Zua and then she went out with her so I made that video and I just I like lost a lot of respect for her I said she's the type of person you never want to feel like people are talking about you when you leave a room that's not the type of people you need to be around and I never felt like Jennifer wasn't stabbing me in the back when I wasn't there what about Dolores we know there's been some tension with you guys earlier on this season but I think last time you were here you said you guys are in a better place now yeah once Dolores and I made up we really made an effort to get to know each other and to get to see the good parts of each other and Dolores and I have really gotten to a very good place we really I like her a lot I like her a lot to hear that and what about the rest of the cast how were you into Risa there was tension there yeah that's a that's a really good question because last year going into your unit I was like me and Teresa are fine now and then we also happened at reading so I would like to think that's a reason I are okay we lasted the entire rest of the season fine so I hope that we're okay I feel like we got a little closer in the Hamptons and then nothing bad happened after that so I don't know I I think that we're fine but Teresa when she when something like triggers her in her head she gets bothered by something you don't know about it but she gets angry again so I don't know if maybe like my relationship with Melissa might rub her the wrong way or someone else does something bad and it reflects on me so the short answer is I don't know well I think it's even Joe Gorgas says this season like it usually takes Teresa 12 hours to decide how she feels about something so something could happen between now and I like Teresa and I feel like she did an amazing job of dealing with all the crap she had to deal with I mean I would be crying all the time if my husband if my dad's my kids dad was trapped somewhere awful and my kids were always upset about it and I had all this on my shoulders I'd be really upset too so I commend her for how well she deals with things I hope we're in a good place yeah so watching this season you know we've seen so much of what Teresa and the girls are going through and the phone calls are having with Joe when all that was going on how much were you aware of exactly what was going on I didn't know the conversations they were having at home I didn't know how the girls were reacting to it but I knew from what Teresa would discuss when we were all together that it was not easy and she always put on a very strong face of like it is what it is and this is the call I got today and here's what I found out today and it was never good news so I had an idea but I didn't know for sure yeah yeah it's tough to watch it is it's really tough so before we wrap up the last time we saw each other was at the Daily Mail Holiday party and I mentioned to you that Evan is quickly rising as a hot house I think he's the hottest but then people don't know him yet the way they know like other house has been right so whenever there's like a survey or something I'm like Evan when when and like he just doesn't because like but he's up there I mean he's in the group it's like him Joe Gorgamario like he's in the hot husbands group but like the world hasn't caught on yet because they don't know him as well right so but you'll see him in the Jersey Shore episodes he's and he's so gorgeous and so great daddy I really hope he takes over I know I mean so how does that make you feel like oh I'm so proud to show him off I really am I'm so proud like I don't know how many Jewish house has been there are in the franchise I don't know if any I think Mariah I think Mariah I think Mariah I'm not Mariah Mariah I'm not Mariah Mariah I'm just so happy to like that my Jewish house has been this like tall muscular bearded like hunky you know like I'm proud to show him off I'm proud that we're representing yeah how does he react to this I cannot lie okay well we expect more thirst traps on Instagram right I got you I just you know he's a little more private than I am so I have to like check things by him but he does have his own Instagram now right like he does yes he does alright Jackie thank you so much for coming in thank you great to see you and a pumper rolls yes do you believe that Charlie has never had pasta I've never had pasta in my life you've never had pasta no I've never had pasta you've never had macaroni cheese no I have this theory that pasta is the reason why everyone's like game's wait I don't I'm just laughing remembering her being like well I have this theory it makes you fat and Dana goes no I mean that's a fact like pasta I think does make you like if you eat a ton of yeah it's not like yeah sure but I mean once in a while I mean to not have ever had it in your life and I think Dana's like you haven't had macaroni and cheese like as a side dish even come on the culture's weird because I will say that like I used to eat pasta all the time and now like I would feel weird eating like a big thing of mac and cheese in the office oh definitely yeah I mean people here judgey about like not here a problem but in New York don't you think yeah if that's your only thing you're eating a giant bowl of mac and cheese no vegetables right well it's also I mean when you're younger and you're on a budget pasta is cheap it's easy to make growing up a spaghetti all the time I expect a dio's all the I'm not spaghetti I was I was getting you too that's not even count as pasta like I don't know what that is no pasta anyway do you think Lisa actually enjoys drinking banderpump rosé or do you think she orders it on camera because it's obviously she's doing the Bethany tactic I think it's weird she hasn't come out with a T line that's true we always have PG tips on deck here for her when she comes in yeah so it would be on brand for her something to think about Lisa yeah shena coming in with the receipts on maps would you think about that oh well I saw a meme that was something like guys to their friends like oh I wouldn't like like being all tough with their guy friends and it was like guys in my DM's being like please miss can I have a crumb of pussy right no it's true so I am curious about that in terms of you know guy like straight men remember last week you were like Eric you need to answer for men well I can't answer this one of the way that like Max is I mean she even calls it out he's a definition of a boy like in one minute he's telling you all these sweet nice things and this happens to my gay friends when they're getting involved the guy and all of a sudden it's like oh it's romantic it's nice he's saying all these things and then he goes to for weeks at a time or whatever so it's just it's interesting to see men behave that way like have you experienced that yes and what's worse is there have been men who said why don't you trust that I'm a nice guy who really likes you and I'm like because there have been so many instances where someone went over the top and acted like they did and then changed on a dime well even asking that question almost feels like a manipulation tactic why don't you trust me it's like well I've learned from other people so like you really have to prove that you're better than that and I think Max fell short on that front because shena's like the editing with the like text bubbles popping up and it's all these like wonderful things that he's saying I mean words only go so far like actions speak louder than words and I think Max his actions have shown that he's a bit of a f*** boy but he does come around and admit it can we just get to the real part of this episode yeah because there's a lot to talk about here but I want to get to the stasi and sandoval situation what did you think I honestly feel like sandoval is way out of line here thank you I was gonna be pissed if you disagree no no I love sandoval but this is like one of those things where I think a drunken text when he wasn't in his right mind started it all and maybe he had much pride to go back and be like I'm sorry and he just like stuck with it and followed through and kind of caused a scene yeah but it's also just this idea of like sure you went to shorts sure you went to Lisa she didn't come to me like calm down yeah I've not got a single time I didn't come to you and kiss your ring no I don't tell Lisa Lisa makes a second earlier because she knows most of this part I don't want to report over her at point night here you come in here right now we do it we all are aware that you're one half of Tom Tom like no one in all of LA in all of the Bravo fans are unaware of that you know I mean like you don't actually need that extra validation oh and the other thing is the footage that they showed was him agreeing to the event yeah like prior and and so I don't understand how 2am the night before the party is supposed to happen all of a sudden you realize oh this isn't gonna work how dare you I'm gonna throw you the hell out I don't blame Stossy for popping off the way that she did because you know she is a client she's bringing people into Tom Tom who maybe have never been who will come back with their friends it just seems like not the right time or place to have that conversation with Stossy so I don't blame her for popping off the way she did I feel like I do the same thing yeah the one bone I will throw Santa ball is I totally understood how he was like short saying well you know we could just if all is fails we could just get behind the bar let's hold down the bar I'm not gonna bar turn why we were owners because really short like I just you have never been able to successfully bar turn on the show so I don't know that yeah well I think it comes out in next week's episode two that they were understaffed I mean they might mention it in this week's episode two like it did seem like this event was understaffed and I think Sandoval felt as though they weren't prepared for it but he could have handled it in a much different way and it's not Stossys problem it's not Stossys problem at all like that's when you show face and and to the client you're like everything's fine we got this don't even worry about it and then behind the scenes you have those conversations with Tom with the rest of your staff whatever it may be I mean for Sandoval to not even offer like you know what I'm gonna come in then and help our tend to he kind of shows up and like gets into a fight with everyone and then doesn't really help yeah but if you're trying to show good leadership I feel like that was an opportunity to do it and he missed it I know some people will say well your partner shouldn't have to answer for your behavior I don't know if I subscribe to that because like if Aaron did something that I didn't like I would definitely tell him yeah so I just felt like Ariana was not as critical of his actions as she should have yeah even in private she's just like well look you could have handled it maybe she did but maybe we didn't see that but I don't know well next week your boy Bo I think he has a little conversation with Tom this whole thing just the preview of that I got so turned on just you know I think he's perfect and then for him to be like I'm gonna stand up for Stossy I was like right he's doing what you were just kind of talking about like you know that kind of on the flip side he's like I'm gonna come through and defend my girl because you came for her yeah I spoke with Vanderpump Rules Kristin Dody she shares her current relationship status with Carter if she thinks she's gonna be invited to Stossy's wedding and if Jax has changed after becoming a married man plus she reveals if Shep Rose hooked up with a server let's take a listen to that interview Kristin welcome back to the Daily Dish I love so much has happened not only since I last spoke to you but I feel like since I last saw you and all your friends on my TV yes this is the one show where I feel like so much goes down it changes like daily yes really does so I need like a little bit of a relationship update on everyone how are the witches of Wieho well as of right now they're you know Stossy says it in the trailer they're a little done so but we'll see I don't know how you know things change all the time I'm cordial with the girls like we're cool they're kind we just don't have that same friendship right now what about you and Brittany oh Brittany is like my everything Brittany and I are so yeah thickest leaves how do you guys keep that separate I think it's hard for Brittany yeah I hate that she's always put in that sort of that position like who am I gonna hang out with but I don't really put it in that position I just say I'm coming over and if they're uncomfortable with it then they can deal with it right yeah I mean not your problem I'm not the one with the problem but then you and Jack's had a falling out I mean Jack's and I always fight right we fight like brother and sister we're always going to but no Jack's and I are great okay yeah so I have to know which was worse when you and Stossy had a falling out after she found out you slept with Jack's more what's happening right now what are you talking about I don't even remember that um I mean that was so much worse obviously but for some reason whatever whatever Stossy's POV is right now and like why she doesn't want to be my friend like I don't even know why I honestly have no idea why I'm gonna watch this entire season with the viewers and hopefully get an idea other than her selfishly trying to call me a liar because I'm going through a bad breakup which I just think is the dumbest thing I've ever heard but um this feels like more permanent for sure what's it weird a Bravo con were you guys talking then no Bravo con was actually pretty cool because we were all there for a purpose and we all were there like to be there for the fans that like bought these tickets and like celebrate the show we've all worked so hard on so we were all like fairly cool but then you know when we're back at the hotel it's not like you know we're clinking champagne together in the same room yeah but I had a lot of fun at Bravo con I mean I did too it was blast you guys are like rock stars there it was really fun um speaking of Bravo con uh huh so Chef Rose said that he has slept with a cast member of another Bravo show aside from southern char I want to know who it is I was asked this earlier if I ever heard of the chef absolutely not well part of me thinks maybe it's shena and I don't know maybe you would know um I don't think shena has slept I mean it's anything is possible but I don't have that sort of way I would say it I would just be like oh well they did I feel like maybe they've like made out or something or maybe they've hooked up in the past yeah shena's a boyfriend now so it definitely didn't have an app Bravo con right um but knowing Chef I mean it could be a housewife you know what I mean that'd be amazing it's Lisa Vanderpond that would be awesome okay how are you in Carter right now we are broken up that also changes on the daily changes hourly if he's you know like we're trying to be friends we're co-parenting our dogs I still love him very much I care about him I want to try to maintain a friendship as time passes I just don't think that I think we can stay friends in a way that we can keep like chatting and scheduling the dog pickup but hanging out is proving to be a lot more difficult for him than it is for me well another on again off again couple on Bravo is Madison and Austin from southern charm and when she was on the show she said look I think that he's my twin flame and it's like we can't we can't stay away from each other but we also can't work together yeah do you feel like that's what it is yeah it does kind of feel that way because there's no there was no real big reason you know it's not like we cheated on each other we got in some people about fight over something specific it's just it's like were these magnets you know they mean like South Pole South Pole like just we can't mesh for some reason it's just not working I think there's a lot of resentment there's a lot of history there's a lot of bickering between Carter and I and I think neither of us are able to let certain things go I mean he felt very attacked obviously on the show like last season and attacked by my friends and as much as we tried to be passed that I just think he's always gonna feel really embarrassed about it which is why I continue to protect him you know he did the show for me he didn't really sign up to have his life and his dirty laundry air the same way that I have so I just try to respect that and I never say never I mean who knows it could be a year or two years or five years from now maybe we do go back together but like right now it's just like not working for me so singles singles good for me well it is confusing for me as a viewer because he always seems so nice and great so I'm not sure what it is that Stossy or Katie are seen in him that maybe the rest of us aren't yeah I don't know I mean obviously last season we talked about some things within my relationship with Carter that like we're really bothering me but I've let that stuff go we broke up because we weren't working we don't live together anymore we did spend the summer sort of back and forth like considering like should we try dating again or should we not and at the end of it it just it just wasn't working and it's just not a path I'm willing to go down but Carter is one of the best men I've ever known in my entire life like he did nothing wrong he's a great guy I just think there's just too much resentment I think he's upset about the way they've trashed him on the show and in life and then they're always gonna be upset because I complain to them about my relationship falling apart which I think is just so stupid we've all done it we all do it all women do it we all complain about our boyfriends and husbands and and all of our friends think that they're all dirtbags essentially but it that's up to the front you know it's it's up to the person in the relationship if they want to keep it going we all have our our dumb fights right you know that just doesn't seem like enough to end this long friendship because I will find out if the season goes on do you see it I don't know I hope so I hope I get to see what they're saying when I'm not around other than trying to call me a liar because it's not I didn't lie about anything it's just messy right you have a new book coming out I sure do tell me about it I'm so excited because that June 2nd 2020 available for pre-order on Amazon right now it's called he's making you crazy and I have a co-author Michelle Alexander who's one of my absolute best friends writer die and yeah we wrote the entire book together I mean morning noon and night 14 hour days it all happened pretty quickly as soon as we got our publishing deal and I'm just so stoked it's a it's a basically like the subtitles how to get the guy get even and get over it so it starts from my first kiss all the way to like where I'm at today which is obviously single and trying to figure out who the one is in the learning that I didn't have enough self-love like I always thought pretty highly of myself but just like owning all that self-love like you can't really love you know it's very like a cliche thing to say but you can't love anyone or it's up love if you don't love yourself so going on that journey and like noticing these patterns with all these guys that I've been dating since I was a teenager and so it starts you know from there and like how I would try to like get these men where I'm like okay now I'm gonna change myself for you and I'm gonna you know just the things you tend to do and when you start making these mistakes growing up and seeing how as women like our self-confidence just gets chipped away over time with all these like dirt bags that you date so it kind of just follows that whole journey you'll see or you'll read everything that you've already seen on the show and everything that you haven't yeah that's amazing so if you're single are you dating right now I am how do you go about dating it's weird and it's hard because I don't like strangers so I've sort of I was like kind of in this like friends with benefits mode for a little while around like okay who are my single hot guy friends I think I said what men and women can be friends I just think you have to have sex first and then you can be friends so I'm seeing someone right now but I don't think that I need a boyfriend I don't think I need your want one see a friend already in your life or using apps okay yeah no right I won't accept me for some reason oh god damn it right now they're really not going to because I talked about Raya I think I'm thinking it's because Stossy got kicked off twice and they're just like oh no not another one of those girls so I just have to dip into the front pool right because I can't go to like leavey and Twitter and you know like a tinder yeah but dating I mean dating is hard I feel like in that's something I I was when I started dating again we were finishing up the book and all of a sudden we're having like add in like we're done with the book and we're like actually we need if we're gonna be very honest we have to add in all these new chapters now because now I'm like having this one guy like texting me and now I have like friends with benefits and now one of the friends with benefits wants to date me but then how do you navigate that because I'm not ready to not date him but I also don't want a boyfriend so it's like a very weird world and to be 36 and dating is like really weird yeah okay let's marry fuck kill with your exes on the show okay it's probably really and of all James Carter oh well definitely kill James I have to marry Carter in Sanibel nice yeah all right that will be the headline because that's too are you gonna be weird how are you guys you and Ariana and Sanibel we are awesome we are in the best place we've ever been in once you know obviously we've seen this over the course of the last few seasons and made up rules once I stopped trying to sabotage their relationship then they were like okay well we'll get this bit of chance you know honey how that works I know they're very supportive of James made a very supportive of my book I'm very supportive of everything they're doing so it's really nice to have them on my side and Ariana and I've realized over the last few years like we're so much more similar than we ever thought we were it had it like it has to be a universal rule and like that's why guys go after certain girls like they have a type so yeah it makes sense and Ariana is just like I am I speak Tom's like friend language like she speaks as love languages like the things that irritated me about Tom for like almost six years that we dated are things that she's so patient and she adores about him so knowing all of that now being able to like kind of step outside the box and see that makes it so much easier to yeah he's still all of his little things still irritate the shot me but I don't have to go home to them right you know well I mean and I hope I'm not trying to get you into hot water but like I just was interviewing Jackson he's just like I don't understand the relationship like he thinks there's something missing I know but it's like who the house places that to say like we're not with them behind closed doors and they are adorable and just because Ariana is very vocal that she is bisexual and that she doesn't want marriage or kids but that's up to them right like who the hell are we to to judge what they have going on they're happy let them be happy it's just because you're married doesn't mean you get to like throw stones yeah do you feel like Jackson changed it all since he's been married oh absolutely really like night and day I think when Jackson decided he was gonna really commit to Brittany he did like a total lady interesting I mean he's still like bitchy Jackson he still has his little PMS mood swings but Brittany is it's kind of like the tongue Ariana dynamic like Brittany's so patient with that she doesn't get irritated when Jackson goes off on me I go off on him harder and Brittany just rolls her eyes and says like give him five minutes and he'll be fine right like night and day Jackson's he's I feel like he's much more Jason Cauci right now than he is Jacks healer oh that's a nice way of putting it also is she gonna legally change her name to Cauci we were talking about that the other day I I don't right now she's not it but I think what she was saying the other day was once they have children because she would have their children take his last name that she might yeah I don't know interesting I mean she really likes her last name I do she's like can we all have Taylor how about that how do you love your new home it's so cute I love it I mean it's a lot of work the lot of houses are hard like relationships are hard houses are hard adulting is hard yeah but I've lived there now like seven eight months I think so still a lot of work to do 1939 fixer upper I've done a lot of the major renovations and now I'm just like pumping the breaks I'm just gonna live here and not even go in those two rooms I don't care just me and my dogs anyway I only need half the house do you have furniture though oh yeah Jacks complained that Ariana and Tom do not have furniture because they want to press the furniture and they're big giant mansion I took everything from my apartment moved it into my house and then slowly started like fading things out yes I think that's a normal way of doing by a house you don't just go and buy all new furniture yeah like you know we're not housewives well even though you guys are in a good place now I do have to ask and I hope you'll say what happened between you and Jacks that you like guys went through that little falling out which one I mean we've had so many well the one where he blocked you on social media oh that you'll see that at the end of the season mostly that I didn't do anything that was Jack's doing something wrong me calling Jacks out for doing something wrong and then Jack's wanting to like have the upper hand so he blocked me Tom Ariana he like uninvited a bunch of us from like a pool party because he got called out for being wrong that's Jackson's M.O.
do you think you'll be able to fix things with Stasi before her wedding that's really on Stasi I she wanted space I tried to make it work now I'm giving her the space and I'm done trying I'm still kind to her like I congratulate her on successes that's kind of that's just where our friendship ends and so same with Katie Katie and I talk a little bit more often but I think I always like I thought a lot of people ask me like do you think Katie's not talking to you because Stasi isn't talking to you because even Katie are sort of texting a little more often well then why won't you guys just be friends and I think Katie is her own person she's nobody's been in she has her own opinions but there's a part of me that feels like unless Stasi is does want to be friends again I think until she gets married everyone's just gonna be like hmm maybe we'll wait to be friends and I'm left with wedding so it's just it's really on her yeah I'm just living life how are things with La La are cool we have no beef we're good but again it I think it's that dynamic of those four girls now like essentially a lot of like taking my place in that group and I think it's just hard for it can be hard for La La can be hard for Britney to be like oh who do we invite do we want Kristen or do we want Katie and Stasi because we can't have all three hmm that's fine that's on them I'm a really good time I mean yes we've seen on the show do you have you and she's not closer this season yeah she and I've always been close we just have kind of we've had blips in the radar here and then yeah but yeah she and I are great I love her new boyfriend I love that she's happy I think she's really finally starting to like grow into herself and not be so wishy washy and I think she's you know I think she's just living now and she's like owning the fact that she's living and I think everyone needs to just let she live so she's gonna be she now yeah so I be lover she's hysterical any temptation to date some of the new cast members on Vander Pong rules no they're too young for me I mean I don't have sex I just don't want to date them there what can you tell us about this season so viewers know that they need to tune in oh god well yeah I mean you guys are obviously going to see this watch this ride of me and Katie and Sassy with me because again I don't know so maybe we'll all find out something glorious together and all in the world will make sense and obviously a lot of stuff Carter and I Jackson Brittany's wedding I cannot wait to watch that I lived it it was amazing it was like the best three days a lot of drama but also just it was just so beautiful I mean Lance Bass was there officiating the wedding so like that's cool as hell you know I mean yes I just it's just the dynamics again I mean I feel like it's like that every season but it's like that every day it's like that right now when we're not filming so I just think it's gonna be a really interesting ride for everyone to take with us we're all like growing up a little bit but we're still like the same as we always have been yes that will never change God love you for it thank you so much thank you Atlanta oh please okay so they go back to the spa where they've had some issues before six years ago yeah damn it feels like a flesh you know I appreciated that Porsche was so blunt to Tanya and was like oh no Kenya was talking about you like it was clear that she was looking at you but also did you feel like Porsche was insinuating that she doesn't think Tanya's pretty she was like why else would Kenya keep saying in this role was beautiful yeah oh definitely that's so mean I mean that's Kenya that's shady nobody was Porsche that was like of course she meant Tanya because she assumed that that's what yeah I don't know maybe Porsche didn't mean it that way but that's just how it came out she was definitely talking about Tanya because the more she was telling her story she was saying the girl was beautiful beautiful woman a sexy woman and I was like well most of it just ain't even as good looking as a man girl she was like no no this was beautiful yeah that was like a little like open mouth insert foot yeah but maybe she didn't mean that that way but good on Tanya okay first of all it would not have even occurred to me to look inside the bag or the box right and that is wrong because I've seen broke down palace I need to be careful about traveling and what you have in your bag otherwise you're gonna end up in a Thai present and then oh yeah and then oh it's a great movie I know what you've seen it it's a one I've seen it so many time but yeah it wouldn't have even occurred to me so first of all that's very smart that she did it but then I thought I was smart that she's like you know what Kenya like I'm gonna show everyone yeah you're a liar I know I mean it's very brave for Tanya to make the choice to come for Kenya I mean Kenya has really decimated people in the past and I think Tanya's like I'm not gonna be afraid of this and I'm gonna just go for it and she pulled out that wig with no shame and everyone freaked out it was a really great meme that was going around where it was Marlow and Portia had their Friday moment and it was side-by-side scenes with a scene from the movie Friday of them being like whoa and like moving back and it's so perfect to find else and I know it's so good but yeah I mean Tanya was like I'm gonna let everybody know I'm gonna let everybody know that she's wearing a wig which by the way is not a problem right except that Marlow specifically asked and Kenya said no she was not well and then they showed footage of Kenya being like this is my natural hair this is my natural hair and in some of those instances it might not have been a natural hair maybe it was maybe I don't care who's to say well yeah I mean I think later on Candy returns the wig to Kenya and also kind of puts Tanya on blast a little bit mentioning that you know Kenya and Tanya were talking about pregnancy and the complications and that sort of stuff and I think Tanya revealed more than Kenya anticipated that she would in that conversation it was more of a private conversation so I think now Kenya has more ammunition to go after Tanya with so this is only the beginning but don't you find it odd like the things that production is sort of choosing to gloss over like we never even saw the conversation with Cynthia and Tanya except a quick flashback without being like oh hey just you know this woman said this thing like it's because they're like there's no credence to this rumor it doesn't matter or what I don't know that is interesting yeah that a lot of the storyline is coming from flashbacks yeah but I don't know we'll see okay so the dentist stuff I have to say you know I've been very unhappy with Dennis since he cheated on Portia but I thought it was super amazing of him to be like I need to take accountability and I'm gonna sit down your mom and sister and my mom and talk about this I agree what I did affected the whole family I could have did this individually I've had conversations with my mom already but like we really couldn't get to like this point without you all helping with PJ so I really appreciate that secondly you know me and Portia have been through some rough times in the last two months feel like a year it felt like a year yeah it feels longer dealing with you know my infidelity and I just want to apologize to everybody yeah I mean Portia was obviously the most hurt by it but then you know that also goes and affects Miss Diane that affected Lauren they were there supporting her and being there and helping to take care of PJ so I thought it was great that they had a moment to be able to express themselves to Dennis because how else do you heal you know if you just gloss over it and don't say anything and move on there might still be a build up of animosity or resentment towards Dennis so it was good that everyone was able to sit down and speak on it the way that they did I was surprised a little bit that his mom didn't have more to say because Mama Gina has been quite vocal in the past but I think to Portia's point knowing that Dennis was really the only one in the wrong here she had no place to really step in but it's interesting she never really reached out to Portia you know when I've been in the wrong Mama Gina has been very swift coming in and let me know when I've been wrong why you want to wait so long how about private ceremony and get married do you want to be a baby mama or wife so I just want to felt like in a situation like this where Dennis had wrong me she would jump in and let him know what he's done wrong as well because his mom was just as invested as my mom was that kind of weird I think a mom is always gonna back her son even if he does something bad but there's like a grandchild involved now you know it's not just like Portia being affected it's her grand I'm not saying it's right but like what is she supposed to do like sorry my son's and asshole I mean I guess that would be nice he would have just like a tax message yeah just have to call her every day but I feel like reaching out and and just saying you know I'm sorry for what you're going through if there's anything you need from me I'm here on the one out here you know yelling at Dennis every day about what he did you know I think it was just an opportunity for mama Gina to show a bit of a warmer side perhaps than we've seen yeah I do have to say that I was really happy to see more from Eva this episode with everything she's going through with Marley and the name change and she's a sterling now and just it's proof that family is what you make it doesn't have to be a very structured specific sort of conventional way and it just was really nice to see that journey for them because I feel like we haven't seen a lot of Eva this season she's just kind of like pregnant and then like coming and going from yeah but it was nice to have some time with her and see or go through that Marley is so cute yeah I love Marley okay let's do Rose and Thorin yes what's your Rose okay so my Rose is Eva's son Mikey he is so cute you don't mind him to be a child you've ever seen well you know I am partial to Monique's daughter on Potomac she is beautiful too I am partial to her but I just feel like I hadn't really seen him yeah until this episode I was like holy shit that kid is cute that's true I'm not really like a kid person but like it's a beautiful child she makes good looking children yeah my Rose was from below deck and it was then preparing for the next charter guest and captain Lee said can we get those little dick lollipas and just hearing captain Lee say those words made me so happy and like the rest of this episode we can be playing just like the smile on Kate's face like sure we'll get that yeah we'll get the little dick lollipops anything for you captain my thorn is from below deck and it's all the eating of the scorpions and the crickets and I want a scorpion I say in our way remember that time a couple years ago we had yes one of the top chefs in here go ahead tell this and he brought in grasshopper to put in like a taco it was like a bunch of different kinds of tacos he was making and I remember crystalline I both tried it and honestly it was pretty good I wouldn't like get it out like if I was going to get tacos I'd be like fish tacos but he's not the grasshopper option but to try it I don't think I'd ever die scorpion I wouldn't I was too risky like there'd be like Justin up boys and left over something I'd be like my thorn is where's Raquel Vanderpump rules we need more Raquel okay well I've watched ahead you're gonna get her okay well how much longer do I have to wait because you know I love her and she's so sweet and she just like makes me laugh even if she doesn't mean to right and I just want I want her back okay and next week we have an interview with Shina Shaye and remember 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