EPISODE · Mar 29, 2023 · 17 MIN
Rise Above the Blame Game
from Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos · host Karen Laos
Tangible Takeaways:Remember: we’re accountable for our own actions.When the blame game begins, pause and look at yourself and ask, “What do I need to own in this, or see as something that I have control over?”Grab a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle, and on one side write down what you can control, and on the other what you can’t control. This is an eye-opening exercise!Allow yourself to vent, but don’t stay there! The trick is to release it in a safe place and move on.Your power is that you decide what to do with the information, and what to do with the situation.Be aware of when you start using the word, “they” from a victimization mindset. Ask yourself, “who are ‘they?’” About me:Karen Laos, Communication Expert and Confidence Cultivator, leverages 25 years in the boardroom and speaking on the world’s most coveted stages such as Google and NASA to transform missed opportunities into wins. She is fiercely committed to her mission of eradicating self-doubt in 10 million women by giving them practical strategies to ask for what they want in the boardroom and beyond. She guides corporations and individuals with her tested communication model to generate consistent results through her Leadership Presence Keynote: How to Be an Influential Communicator.Connect with me:Website: https://www.karenlaos.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenlaosofficial Facebook: Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos: https://www.facebook.com/groups/karenlaosconsultingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenlaos/Clubhouse: @karenlaosEpisodes also available on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEwQoTGdJX5eME0ccBKiKng/videosMy book “Trust Your Own Voice”: https://karenlaos.com/book/ Karen Laos, Communication Expert and Confidence Cultivator, leverages 25 years in the boardroom and speaking on the world’s most coveted stages such as Google and NASA to transform missed opportunities into wins. She is fiercely committed to her mission of eradicating self-doubt in 10 million women by giving them practical strategies to ask for what they want in the boardroom and beyond. She guides corporations and individuals with her tested communication model to generate consistent results through her Powerful Presence Keynote: How to Be an Influential Communicator. Get my free tips: 9 Words to Avoid & What to Say Instead: Words to Avoid | Karen Laos Connect with me:Website: https://www.karenlaos.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenlaosofficial Facebook: Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos: https://www.facebook.com/groups/karenlaosconsultingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenlaos/Episodes also available on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEwQoTGdJX5eME0ccBKiKng/videosMy book “Trust Your Own Voice”: https://karenlaos.com/book/
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You can almost feel this moment in your bones: you receive an email, or phone call asking to explain “what happened here?” or you're accused of doing something that had unintentional consequences. Maybe you realized something is wrong and you're left with that sickening feeling of having to address it. This often kicks off the “blame game” - pointing fingers and finding fault in others to deflect responsibility. This is natural, yet we need to push against it. Listen and learn how to shift your mindset so that in these situations you focus on what you can control. When we manage our responses, we can rise above the situations that come our way!
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