RISE Up: Inspiring Teen Confidence Through Less Control

In this week's episode, Cindy Manko introduces step two of her R I S E approach, emphasizing the importance of inspiring independence in teenagers by treating them as insightful individuals rather than micromanaging their every move. Cindy is also inspired by family therapist Jennifer Kolari's concept of parents stepping back from acting as a "substitute frontal lobe," striking a delicate balance between guidance and control. Cindy's words will shed light on how reducing parental intervention allows teens to develop confidence and essential life skills. While challenging, the shift in parental roles paves the way for deeper connections and enduring support as teens journey toward independence. Parents can help teens unlock their full potential by embracing change and allowing them to navigate discomfort and failure independently.  This episode offers valuable insights into transforming your parenting approach and creating a nurturing environment where your teen can truly thrive. Listen to learn more: 0:30 - Definition of Inspire 1:25 - Why you should join The Savvy Senior Mom private Facebook group 2:05 - Introduction to the parent habit: you should kick to the curb. 3:05 - What is so important about developing the brain's frontal lobe? 4:00 - What is your job in helping build an independent teen? 6:07 - The challenge to listen and how that helps you build your teen's confidence. 10:37 - "How to Inspire Others" article breakdown. 11:10 - 20:45:  10 ways to inspire your teen inspired by Maggie Wooll   Compliment your teen Be enthusiastic Have integrity Be empathetic Maintain a positive outlook Practice gratitude Stand your ground Set clear goals and strive for them Have passion Challenge your teen 20:45 - Addressing how hard it is to have a teenager.    LINKS  Article by Maggie Wooll, MBA   10 Ways to Inspire Others and Support Long-term Growth https://a.co/d/aV9ao3w Reflection questions link:   https://docs.google.com/document/d/14gS7hoPMp_zabjr79HYjur0ged9TM7ohcmC_3aFgAFY/edit?usp=sharing   The Journal Project: My Senior Year Through Mom's Eyes by Cindy Manko https://a.co/d/2YguEiH   Private Facebook Group just for moms of high school seniors: www.facebook.com/groups/savvyseniormoms/ CONNECT WITH CINDY: Instagram: @MankoCindy   Email: [email protected]   WHAT TO DO NEXT: Create reminders in your calendar – NEW episodes will be released every Thursday!. Leave a review on the Apple Podcast app Share this episode. Tag #savvyseniormom