Roundtable Ep. 1 Pt. 3 | Guilt vs Shame Money Talk

You built something your family never had. So why does it feel like guilt instead of pride? That is first gen wealth guilt, and it messes with your money, your identity, and your mental health in ways nobody warns you about.In this roundtable I sat down with four badass women who live this every day. Kristina Hall, Ashley Quamme, Tessa Santarpia, and Rachel Duncan get honest about being women, business owners, and cycle breakers in a world that raised us to expect a lot less.Ashley talks about growing up with every empowering message you could want and zero model for what being a woman business owner actually looks like. Tessa breaks down how first gen builders carry generations of disappointment in their nervous system whether they know it or not. Rachel calls building wealth her old dirty little secret, the immigrant American dream she married into, and what it means to be uncomfortable with your own comfort.Then Kristina brings the line every first gen builder has lived: the family member who keeps asking when you are going to get a real job. We get into betting on yourself, why everything is figureoutable, and the difference between staying among your people and outgrowing the money map you were handed.This one goes deep. If you want to hear Stoy's own story, he and Ashley did a Father's Day episode that gets into his guilt directly: https://youtu.be/1oDJ2wZuWJ0Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CCAHAB5-kpM Kristina Hall: https://hallsocialmedia.com/ Ashley Quamme: https://www.beyondthefp.com/ Tessa Santarpia: https://santaia.health/ Rachel Duncan: https://www.rachelduncantherapy.com/If this hit home, drop a comment. Tell me where you're feeling it most. I read every single one.New episodes every week on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Subscribe so you never miss a real conversation.