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EPISODE · Oct 6, 2025 · 58 MIN

S 3 E: 24 Who counts as human when grief goes public?

from United States of PTSD · host Matthew Boucher LICSW LCDP and Co-host Dr. Erika Lin-Hendel

Send us Fan MailWe unpack reactions to the assassination of Charlie Kirk, the messy truths of trauma responses, and why some grief gets megaphones while other suffering stays invisible. Trauma reactions come in many forms.  But what is it that makes such a tidal wave of reactions when the targets are high profile white men, but a resounding silence when it is from other groups.  • setting intentions, limits, and non‑violence• why man‑made violence destabilizes more than disasters• viral footage, repetition, and normal trauma responses• witnessing harm and preventing entrenched PTSD• media bias, scapegoating, and selective outrage• interpersonal versus systemic violence• sympathy, empathy, and compassion defined• mixed feelings about public figures and moral nuance• global grief hierarchies and who gets to be human• systems “working as designed” and dehumanizing language• moving from feeling to practice with concrete actionsTask yourself with one compassionate act this week that eases someone’s load—one person or one community. Share what you chose and why.Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/hartzmann/no-time-to-dieLicense code: S4CEQWLNQXVZUMU4Artwork and logo design by Misty Rae. Special thanks to Joanna Roux for editing help.Special thanks to the listeners and all the wonderful people who helped listen to and provide feedback on the episode's prerelease.  Please feel free to email Matt topics or suggestions, questions or [email protected] 

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Send us Fan Mail We unpack reactions to the assassination of Charlie Kirk, the messy truths of trauma responses, and why some grief gets megaphones while other suffering stays invisible. Trauma reactions come in many forms. But what is it that makes such a tidal wave of reactions when the targets are high profile white men, but a resounding silence when it is from other groups. • setting intentions, limits, and non‑violence • why man‑made violence destabilizes more than dis...

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