S1:E45 – Healing After Divorce: The Conscious Uncoupling Roadmap with Divorce Coach Greg Wheeler

Healing after divorce, divorce recovery, and conscious uncoupling — divorce coach Greg Wheeler breaks down the roadmap that has helped over 400 people transform one of life's most painful experiences into their greatest period of personal growth. What if divorce wasn't a failure — but a wake-up call? What if you could end your marriage and still show up as a grounded, connected, peaceful co-parent? What if the patterns that broke your last relationship don't have to follow you into your next one? That's not fantasy. That's conscious uncoupling — and today, you're getting the full roadmap. Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach and Calling in the One coach Greg Wheeler joins host Becky Sampson on the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast to share the framework that changed his own life after a devastating "War of the Worlds" divorce 28 years ago — and the five-step inner work process that stops the cycle of repeating the same relationship patterns, again and again. In This Episode: 🔄 Why 70% of second marriages fail — and the single most important thing you can do before you ever date again to break the cycle for good 🧠 The "False Identity" Trap — how a coping mechanism you built as a child is quietly running your adult relationships (and how to finally unhook from it) 🔍 The 5-Step Process: See It, Name It, Face It, Embrace It, Replace It — a practical framework for confronting your deepest patterns without shame or fear 💔 Greg's personal story: from a high-conflict, high-damage divorce to a life of healing, self-discovery, and helping 400+ families navigate conscious uncoupling 👶 Co-parenting without the war: why how you do your inner work directly impacts the stability your children feel — even when your ex won't cooperate 💡 What conscious uncoupling actually is (hint: it's not just a Gwyneth Paltrow headline) — and whether it can work even when one person isn't "on board" 🧬 Source fracture wounds explained: the moment in childhood you decided you "weren't enough" — and why that belief keeps attracting the same relationship, with a different face 🌱 The 8-session Conscious Uncoupling program: what it covers, what transformation looks like, and who it's truly designed for 🎁 Download your FREE "100 Divorce Terms You Need to Know": https://onlysubpoenas.com/free 🎙️About Greg Wheeler:  Greg Wheeler is a Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach and Calling in the One Coach trained directly under bestselling author Katherine Woodward Thomas. A single dad of four, Greg navigated his own high-conflict divorce over 28 years ago — long before tools like conscious uncoupling existed — and spent years doing the deep inner work that changed everything. Today he has guided more than 400 people through the journey from couple to co-parents, with a focus on reducing conflict, healing unconscious relationship patterns, and building a foundation for healthier love moving forward. 🔗 Connect with GREG WHEELER Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/GregWheelerCoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rgregw/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gregwheelercoaching3953 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rgregwheeler/ Website: https://gregwheelercoaching.com/ 🎧About Divorcing Strong™ Podcast:  Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast is where real stories meet real strategies for surviving and thriving through divorce. Each episode brings expert insights from top divorce attorneys, family law specialists, financial planners, and healing coaches to help you protect your rights and step into YOU 2.0. 👉 Subscribe for more empowering divorce stories and strategies 👉 Learn more about working with Becky: https://beckysampson.com/ 👉 Follow Becky on social media: BECKY SAMPSON Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcingstrongbeckysampson/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beckysampson11/ TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcingstrong YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DivorcingStrong LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beckysampson/ 🌺For information on working with Only Subpoenas™, visit our website at https://onlysubpoenas.com/ or contact us at this number: 650-910-6659 🌺 ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: The content on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or mental health advice. 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