S1:E7 – SHARNICE KAMELLE PERRY “Domestic Violence & the Courts: How to Build Proof”

In this episode of Divorcing Strong, Becky Sampson (Bulldog Becky Brochovich) sits down with Florida family-law and estate-planning attorney Sharnice Perry to talk about what most people don’t realize until they’re already in the system: education is power, and your outcome improves when you understand the process, the language, and what evidence actually matters. Sharnice shares her remarkable journey from answering phones in a law firm as a teenager to working every role in the legal field—receptionist, paralegal, and eventually attorney—while raising eight children and working full-time through law school. Her path took a pivotal turn when her first case out of law school was her own divorce, representing herself pro se. That experience shaped her mission: helping people—especially overwhelmed parents—leave unhealthy marriages in the best possible position and rebuild life on the other side. Together, Becky and Sharnice cover how to set realistic expectations, how to advocate for yourself (even if you have an attorney), and what to do if domestic violence is part of the story—especially the importance of documenting incidents and including key details early in filings. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why Sharnice says in divorce, “no one truly wins”—and what “justice” looks like in real life The importance of understanding legal language and managing expectations (not TV, friends, or the internet) What to do when you feel overwhelmed at the start—and the “don’ts” that can protect your case (including social media) Domestic violence in the legal system: why documentation matters and how “he said / she said” plays out Why details belong in your initial filings—and how self-help resources can support the process The reminder every listener needs: it gets better, and this season is temporary About Divorcing Strong™ Podcast:  Hosted by Becky Sampson, CEO of Only Subpoenas™, the Divorcing Strong™ Podcast is where real stories meet real strategies for surviving and thriving through divorce. Each episode brings expert insights from top divorce attorneys, family law specialists, financial planners, and healing coaches to help you protect your rights and step into YOU 2.0. 👉 Subscribe for more empowering divorce stories and strategies 👉 Learn more about working with Becky: https://beckysampson.com/ 👉 Follow Becky on social media: BECKY SAMPSON Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcingstrongbeckysampson/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beckysampson11/ TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcingstrong YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DivorcingStrong LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beckysampson/ 🌺For information on working with Only Subpoenas™, visit our website at https://onlysubpoenas.com/ or contact us at this number: 650-910-6659 🌺 ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: The content on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or mental health advice. Please consult a licensed attorney, financial advisor, or mental health professional for guidance specific to your situation. If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please get in touch with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. Support Divorcing Strong by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/divorcing-strong