S10 | E7 Why So Many Teens Are Struggling – And What Really Helps (with Dr Will Dobud)

Send us Fan MailIn this video I’m talking with Dr Will Dobud about something I’ve barely touched on before: youth mental health. Anxiety, depression, self-harm and distress in teenagers are reported to have risen dramatically in recent years, even as diagnoses, services and medications have increased. Will and I explore why that might be and, crucially, what actually helps.Will is a social worker, therapist, educator and researcher based in Australia, and co-author (with Dr Nevin Harper) of the book “Kids These Days”, which I highly recommend if you’re interested in youth mental health and what adults can realistically do to support young people.In this conversation we talk about:* Why distress in teenagers appears to be rising and why “kids these days” might not be the real problem* Social media, phone bans and whether banning tech actually improves mental health* Loneliness, “engagement problems” and why so many young people feel unseen even when surrounded by others at school* Outdoor and adventure-based therapy, and how mastery and success experiences support wellbeing* Labels, self-diagnosis and identity, including the risks of young people becoming their diagnosis* The importance of relationship and connection in therapy and in families* Parents’ and caregivers’ own anxiety and histories, and how that shapes how we respond to teens* How everyday activities, rituals and shared experiences can build stronger relationships with young peopleI really hope this feels supportive whether you’re a parent, carer, therapist, teacher or simply someone who cares about the young people in your life.You can find more about Will and his work here:Kids These Days book and resources: (https://www.kidsthesedaysbook.com)Will’s website: (https://www.willdobud.com)The Celebrate Everyday video: https://www.facebook.com/share/v/16YtPy4tJM/✅ If you're thinking about exploring therapy generally, I’d love to hear from you and you’re very welcome to get in touch with me via my website (https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk) to find out more or to arrange an initial conversation.🎯 **1:1 Mentoring & Consultancy**Thinking about changing career to become a therapist? Already qualified and wanting to start up a private therapy practice? In private practice and looking to grow? Or maybe you're curious about sharing your voice on YouTube? I offer supportive, one-to-one mentoring on career change and becoming a therapist, starting and building a private practice, and creating meaningful content on YouTube. All the details are on my website.🎁 **My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change' is now available on this channel in a playlist on the homepage.**Whether you’re looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – this course is carefully designed to help you do just that.**‘Life Unlimited’ Course testimonials include:**"John-Paul's course Life Unlimited more than lives up to its promise as a practical and accessible guide to making meaningful, positive changes in your life. He takes you on a clear path towards self-awareness and self-acceptance, helping you to set healthy boundaries in your relationships with others. 100% recommend."Support the showIf there’s anything else you’d like to know about John-Paul and how he might be able to help you, please do contact him via his website www.thistrustedplace.co.uk