S1E4: Injections at home, workplace smiles: A working mum's IVF reality

Two women share their journeys through IVF, miscarriage and the long road to motherhood   Synopsis: Join us for a five-part series on working motherhood from July 3-31 with episodes out every Friday. This episode explores the difficult journey some women take to become mothers.  Around one in six couples in Singapore experience infertility, yet many endure the physical and emotional toll of fertility treatment in silence while juggling work, medical appointments and the uncertainty of what comes next. Host Vanessa Chelvan speaks with Divya Menon, director of Fertility Support SG, who is still navigating her own in-vitro fertilisation (IVF) journey after multiple treatment cycles and a recent miscarriage, and Elisha Tushara, a Straits Times journalist whose daughter was conceived after years of fertility treatment and losses.  They discuss the grief of failed cycles and miscarriages, the burden of balancing treatment with work, the financial cost of trying to conceive, and why workplaces - and society - need to better support those navigating infertility. Highlights (click/tap above): 5:05 Emotional, mental and physical toll of fertility treatment   8:31 Dealing with the grief of loss  10:58 ‘I’m going to give it everything I have, even if the money goes’ 12:54 Why many choose to go through fertility treatment in silence 15:23 The misconception that infertility is a woman’s problem 18:53 The two-week wait 22:51 77% of women see trade-off between IVF and career  28:29 Does miscarriage equate failure?  35:45 The costs of fertility treatment 39:19 The Government should do more to help couples  41:04 Creating a supportive workplace  Resources:  Fertility Support SG: https://fertilitysupport.sg/Fertility Support SG’s Workplace Guide: https://fertilitysupport.sg/infertility-in-the-workplace/ Host: Vanessa Chelvan ([email protected]) Read Vanessa's articles: https://str.sg/gr5Z Follow Vanessa on LinkedIn: https://str.sg/jHdJ  Produced and edited by: Teo Tong Kai Executive producers: Ernest Luis & Elizabeth Law — Follow The Mother Load limited series every Friday (July 3-31): Channel: https://str.sg/oMofY  Apple Podcasts: https://str.sg/8Kbv  Spotify: https://str.sg/DELD  YouTube: https://str.sg/HnaV Feedback to: [email protected]  — Follow more ST podcast channels: All-in-one ST Podcasts channel: https://str.sg/wvz7  Get more updates: http://str.sg/stpodcasts --- Get The Straits Times app, which has a dedicated podcast player section: The App Store: https://str.sg/icyB  Google Play: https://str.sg/icyX #themotherloadSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.