S2 Episode 18 - Healing After Divorce

"Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over." — Nicole Sobon Join Ayomide in an engaging episode of The World Without People Podcast as she converses with Stella Adjei known to her as Auntie Stella. Auntie Stella shares her “Coming to America” story, exploring the challenges of abrupt life changes and the dynamics of familial support. Together, they dive deep into the trials and tribulations of marriage, the painful reality of divorce, and the process of healing and forgiveness. Emphasizing the importance of open communication with children, setting boundaries, and seeking help, Auntie Stella highlights her resilient spirit and unwavering faith in God in her own journey through divorce. She also discusses her ministry, Oasis International Ministry, and reflects on preparing for marriage and the power of prayer in relationships. Throughout the episode, Stella's experiences offer invaluable insights into navigating life's toughest challenges with strength and hope. 00:00 Introduction 01:35 Auntie Stella's Journey to America 04:32 Life in the U.S. and Family Dynamics 11:24 Navigating Divorce and Single Parenthood 19:29 The Role of Faith and Church Support 29:14 Parenting Through Divorce 51:08 Hope Through Forgiveness 51:32 Understanding Forgiveness from a Child to Parent Perspective 53:40 Biblical Insights on Forgiveness 55:49 Practical Steps to Forgiveness 58:11 Setting Boundaries in Relationships 01:00:27 The Importance of Communication 01:13:34 The Role of Community and Mentorship 01:17:28 God's Plan and Hope for the Future 01:24:46 Final Thoughts