S2E26: Your Offers Are Getting Ignored By Sellers (Here's Why & What To Do Next)

In this episode of Storage Wins, Alex Pardo works with Dan Wentzel through one of the most critical inflection points in the entire journey so far. After consistently taking action, making offers, and having conversations, Dan finds himself stuck in a frustrating cycle—doing the work, but expecting the same disappointing outcome every time.   What unfolds is a powerful shift away from tactics and into the internal game. Alex identifies the real issue immediately: it's not a lack of knowledge, resources, or opportunity—it's a mindset problem. More specifically, it's the expectation that deals won't work out, which is quietly influencing everything from tone and confidence to how Dan shows up in conversations with sellers.   This episode pulls back the curtain on how belief, energy, and communication directly impact results. From self-sabotage and low confidence to timid conversations and lack of frame control, Alex breaks down how these subtle factors are costing opportunities—and how to fix them.   But more importantly, the conversation introduces a new way forward. Instead of trying to control every outcome or force deals to work, the focus shifts to letting go, showing up consistently, and trusting the process. By reframing expectations, protecting confidence, and communicating with conviction, Dan is challenged to break the cycle and step into a new level of performance.   This episode is a turning point—where the realization hits that success isn't just about what you do, but how you think, how you show up, and what you believe is possible.   ⸻   You'll Learn How To:   Break the cycle of expecting negative outcomes from your efforts Identify and eliminate self-sabotaging thought patterns Communicate with more confidence and authority in seller conversations Shift from outcome-based thinking to process-based execution Protect your confidence as your most valuable asset Show up with energy and conviction that builds trust and credibility   ⸻   What You'll Learn in This Episode:   [1:33] Why feeling stuck and discouraged is more common than you think [3:11] Dan's frustration: doing the work but seeing the same results [5:01] The hidden problem: expecting deals to fail before they start [6:20] Why mindset—not tactics—is the real bottleneck [7:49] Protecting confidence as the #1 job of an entrepreneur [9:25] How low confidence shows up in conversations with sellers [11:03] The impact of timid tone and lack of frame control [13:05] Why belief must match communication [14:24] Self-sabotage: how your expectations shape your outcomes [16:05] The shift from chasing deals to evaluating opportunities [18:05] Why sellers need to feel your certainty and conviction [20:06] Contagious enthusiasm and how it influences results [22:28] The importance of asking better questions—not more questions [24:57] Choosing the story you tell yourself about your progress [27:32] Why consistency guarantees results over time [29:50] Letting go of control and trusting the process [31:45] The role of faith and releasing pressure [34:20] Practical ways to shift your energy before key conversations [36:30] Focusing on helping—not closing—the deal [38:45] Why one mindset shift can unlock everything   ⸻   Who This Episode Is For:   Investors who feel stuck despite taking consistent action Listeners struggling with confidence in conversations Anyone dealing with discouragement after repeated "no's" Entrepreneurs who know what to do but aren't seeing results People ready to break through mental barriers and level up   ⸻   Why You Should Listen:   Most people think they need better strategies or more opportunities.   In reality, they need a better mindset.   This episode shows how your expectations, energy, and belief system directly impact your results—and why even the best strategy won't work if your mindset is working against you.   If you've been doing the work but not seeing the results, this conversation will help you identify what's really holding you back—and give you the tools to finally break through.   ⸻   Follow Alex Pardo here:   Alex Pardo Website: https://alexpardo.com/ Alex Pardo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alexpardo15 Alex Pardo Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexpardo25 Alex Pardo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AlexPardo Storage Wins Website: https://storagewins.com/   ⸻   Have conversations with at least three storage owners, brokers, private lenders, or equity partners inside the Storage Wins Facebook Group. Join for free here:   https://www.facebook.com/groups/322064908446514/