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EPISODE · May 29, 2026 · 40 MIN

S3 E17 - Love Must Get Loud

from It Matters How We Treat One Another

Thank you to our new sponsor, Sentry PC. Learn more about their computer monitoring technology and all-in-one solution at https://sentrypc.7eer.net/mOaJM1Thank you to our sponsor, Promeed. Shop their quality bedding at: https://promeed.sjv.io/L0Zq43Use this link to get 10% off in our merch store: https://itmattersmerch.etsy.com?coupon=ITMATTERS10“It Matters How We Treat One Another” is the social science show - now in its third season! Here, host Matthew David Vasko discusses all the various ways that we can improve our relationships with others - partners, children, parents, extended family, friends, coworkers, and all the different types of people with whom we share our beautiful and diverse world. Features include Inspiring News and The Quote of the Week. Find our premium content on our Patreon, including The Takeaway. Season 3, Episode 17, Topic: Love Must Get LoudHost Matthew David Vasko sets out to learn whether or not hate speech should be legal and ends up at an interesting conclusion: Love must get loud. Learn about that and a follow-up to his previous episode on this finale of season 3. Sources & References:LEGAL CASES: Brandenburg v. Ohio (1969) | Snyder v. Phelps (2011) | Matal v. Tam (2017) | R. v. Keegstra, Canada (1990)PHILOSOPHY: Karl Popper, The Open Society and Its Enemies (1945) | John Stuart Mill, On Liberty (1859) | Jeremy Waldron, The Harm in Hate Speech (2012)ONLINE HATE SPREAD: Mathew et al., 'Spread of Hate Speech in Online Social Media,' ACM Web Science (2019) — study of 341K users and 21M posts showing hateful content spreads farther, faster, and wider | Milli et al., 'Engagement, User Satisfaction, and the Amplification of Divisive Content on Social Media,' Cornell Tech/UC Berkeley (2023) — Twitter's algorithm selects 62% anger content vs 52% chronologicallyALGORITHMS & OUTRAGE: Frances Haugen / Facebook Papers (2021) — internal Meta documents showing 'our recommendation systems grow the problem' of extremism | Amnesty International, 'Myanmar: Facebook's Systems Promoted Violence Against Rohingya' (2022) | UN Fact-Finding Mission on Myanmar (2018)COUNTERSPEECH RESEARCH: Alvarez-Benjumea & Winter, PNAS (2021) — empathy-based counterspeech reduces xenophobic hate speech; humor and warnings do not | Jahani et al., 'Celebrity messages reduce online hate and limit its spread' — 20-week RCT in Nigeria, 50%+ reduction in hate repostingMIND CHANGE RESEARCH: Broockman & Kalla, 'Durably reducing transphobia,' Science (2016) | William Miller & Stephen Rollnick, Motivational Interviewing | Anthony Magnabosco, Street EpistemologyHISTORY: The King Center, thekingcenter.org — Dr. King's leadership produced more progress toward racial equality in 13 years than the previous 350 | Civil Rights Act 1964 | Voting Rights Act 1965HATE CRIME DATA: FBI Hate Crime Statistics 2023 & 2024 | Statistics Canada 2023 | German Federal Office for the Protection of the Constitution (BfV) 2025 reportKEY QUOTES: Justice Louis Brandeis, Whitney v. California (1927) | Audre Lorde — 'It is not the responsibility of the oppressed to educate the oppressor'Show links: Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/ItMattersHowWeTreatOneAnother/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ItMattersHowWeTreatOneAnother/Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/ItMattersMerch Patreon: http://patreon.com/ItMattersPatronsPodcast website: https://it-matters.captivate.fm/Host Matthew David Vasko’s website: https://matthewvasko.com/Intro/Outro/Interstitial music by Z19: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvfnVgE2H20vJQN4Yl7gbtA“It Matters How We Treat One Another” is a production of Meta Key Productions, all rights reserved. If you or someone you know is considering suicide, please call 988 for the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (in the United States). The information shared on this show is meant for general educational purposes only. Please consult with a licensed professional before making any life-altering decisions. Listener/viewer assumes all responsibility for any actions taken as a result of consuming this content. Any application of suggestions made on this show is taken at the listener/viewer's sole risk.

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