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EPISODE · Jul 15, 2025 · 1H

S3 E5: Carly & Billy: Parenting 2 under 2, Mom Guilt, Sex After Babies & More

from Just A Phase Podcast · host Balanced Beyars

We’re kicking off our Solo Couple Series!! 💥 Each couple—Carly & Billy, Julie & Tolin, Alaina & Tommy—is taking over the mic for one raw, unfiltered episode to talk about the phase of life they’re in. From the highs to the hard stuff, this series is all about real relationships, real parenting, and real growth—no group chat to hide behind 😅First up: Carly (the middle Beyar sister) and her husband, Billy. ❤️What starts as a Guitar Hero throwback quickly spirals into one of the most honest convos we’ve ever had on the mic—about parenting, identity loss, sex after babies, and how much we’re all truly winging it. This episode is part love letter, part therapy session.We’re talking about:➡ The messy (and hilarious) transition from 1 to 2 kids➡ Dividing and conquering vs. actually connecting➡ Why we have couples therapy (and how it’s saving us)➡ Postpartum sex, nervous system mismatch, and how to meet in the middle➡ The identity shift that comes with becoming a mom (and a dad)➡ “Mom guilt” around not working...and how we’re reframing worth➡ How dads can find purpose outside of work➡ Rebuilding your marriage during the “roommate” era➡ Real tips for social connection and friendship in the newborn hazeRESOURCES➡ Madeline Moves MOM (or dad) workouts https://www.movesapp.com/programs (use code BALANCED25 for 25% OFF your monthly or annual membership. *Highly recommend choosing the annual membership because you end up saving the MOST she offers!)ABOUT USWe’re Carly, Alaina and Julie Beyar, three silly sisters helping you thrive through every phase of womanhood—cycle health, fertility, pregnancy, and motherhood—with real talk, hormone education, zero shame...and with a healthy dose of humor. From fertility to postpartum, and everything in between, join us every Wednesday for candid conversations, empowering insights, and the occasional dose of laughter.SUBSCRIBE NOW for a journey through the phases, where we keep it real, relatable, and always entertaining...and don't forget to RATE US & REVIEW ⭐ We appreciate YOU!LET'S CONNECT➡ Shop page ⁠https://shopmy.us/balancedbeyars⁠➡ Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/balancedbeyars/⁠➡ Join our weekly newsletter ⁠https://balancedbeyarssisters.substack.com/⁠➡ Website ⁠https://www.balancedbeyars.com/

We’re kicking off our Solo Couple Series!! 💥 Each couple—Carly & Billy, Julie & Tolin, Alaina & Tommy—is taking over the mic for one raw, unfiltered episode to talk about the phase of life they’re in. From the highs to the hard stuff, this series is all about real relationships, real parenting, and real growth—no group chat to hide behind 😅First up: Carly (the middle Beyar sister) and her husband, Billy. ❤️What starts as a Guitar Hero throwback quickly spirals into one of the most honest convos we’ve ever had on the mic—about parenting, identity loss, sex after babies, and how much we’re all truly winging it. This episode is part love letter, part therapy session.We’re talking about:➡ The messy (and hilarious) transition from 1 to 2 kids➡ Dividing and conquering vs. actually connecting➡ Why we have couples therapy (and how it’s saving us)➡ Postpartum sex, nervous system mismatch, and how to meet in the middle➡ The identity shift that comes with becoming a mom (and a dad)➡ “Mom guilt” around not working...and how we’re reframing worth➡ How dads can find purpose outside of work➡ Rebuilding your marriage during the “roommate” era➡ Real tips for social connection and friendship in the newborn hazeRESOURCES➡ Madeline Moves MOM (or dad) workouts https://www.movesapp.com/programs (use code BALANCED25 for 25% OFF your monthly or annual membership. *Highly recommend choosing the annual membership because you end up saving the MOST she offers!)ABOUT USWe’re Carly, Alaina and Julie Beyar, three silly sisters helping you thrive through every phase of womanhood—cycle health, fertility, pregnancy, and motherhood—with real talk, hormone education, zero shame...and with a healthy dose of humor. From fertility to postpartum, and everything in between, join us every Wednesday for candid conversations, empowering insights, and the occasional dose of laughter.SUBSCRIBE NOW for a journey through the phases, where we keep it real, relatable, and always entertaining...and don't forget to RATE US & REVIEW ⭐ We appreciate YOU!LET'S CONNECT➡ Shop page ⁠https://shopmy.us/balancedbeyars⁠➡ Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/balancedbeyars/⁠➡ Join our weekly newsletter ⁠https://balancedbeyarssisters.substack.com/⁠➡ Website ⁠https://www.balancedbeyars.com/

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