S3 Ep102 Helen Lunnon-Wood: Transition Series #1

You can plan the exit date, but you cannot schedule who you become afterwards. Aaron Hill sits down with Helen London Wood, former RAF fast jet pilot and founder of High Flight Coaching, to talk honestly about transition as a living process that keeps evolving long after the uniform is handed back. We get into what it feels like when structure vanishes, when identity suddenly becomes a question again, and when you realise you have been “fitting in” rather than truly belonging. Helen shares the jolt of the first month without a military pay cheque and the deeper identity story underneath it: independence, self-worth, and the weight of feeling “dependent”.  Aaron brings a different perspective from leaving earlier in a career and living far from people who share the same background, including the loneliness that can sit beneath achievement. Together, we explore why operational cultures are brilliant at performance feedback yet can leave little room for deeper reflection, and why that gap often shows up during military to civilian transition, career change, or any major life pivot. We unpack the triathlon model of transition: pause, remove what no longer serves, take what you truly need, then move into the next leg with intention. We talk about micro-decompression rituals between meetings, the power of commute time as a psychological reset, and how to find community when you feel isolated. If you are navigating leadership under pressure, veteran reintegration, or a big role change, this conversation offers language, reassurance, and tools you can use immediately. Subscribe for the next part of the series, share this with someone mid-transition, and leave a review so more people can find it. What part of transition are you in right now?Find Helen on LinkedIn or via her website.Help us improve! I'd love to get your feedback...Forging Resilience supports Save A WarriorSave A Warrior works with veterans and first responders facing complex PTSD and the reality of suicide.Through this podcast, we’re supporting their work.If you want to get behind it, you can do that by buying a bag of  Major Stoke Blend coffee. All profits go directly to Save A Warrior.Good coffee. Real conversations. Work that matters.Support the showFollow my social media accounts | LinkedIn | Instagram |