S4, Ep3: The Meaning of Male Nannies | Breaking gender norms in childcare

Why are men so often discouraged from caregiving roles? In this episode of The Meaning of Men, I sit down with Joss Cambridge Simmons (aka Jossy Care), a male nanny and caregiver who is redefining what it means to be a man in today’s world. Together, we explore the rarely discussed role of male nannies, the stigma men face in caregiving roles, and why love, presence, and emotional safety are not weaknesses, but essential human strengths. Joss shares his personal journey into childcare, how caregiving shaped his understanding of masculinity, and what children, families, and society gain when men show up with softness and intention. This conversation goes far beyond childcare — touching on fatherhood beyond biology, purpose-driven work, resilience in the face of judgement, and the importance of positive male role models in children’s lives. Whether you’re a father, a caregiver, or a man questioning traditional expectations and masculinity, this episode offers insight, challenge, and inspiration for living with deeper meaning. In this episode you will learn: Why caregiving is a powerful expression of masculinity How male nannies challenge outdated gender norms The impact emotionally present men have on children How love and softness build resilience in men Why purpose often lies beyond society’s expectations Hear more from Joss: www.instagram.com/jossycare   Here Is An App That Can Support Families' Busy Schedules: "TRYBE"  Subscribe Monthly Or Yearly   Watch  Me On CBBCS "Our School" Our School   Watch the Nanny Man Documentary  Nanny Man   Watch My Recent Interview Here, Manny Life   Watch Me At the National Diversity Awards 2019   Become An Inclusive Anti-Racist Educator / Parent & Adult Anti Racist Guide   Timestamps:   01:50: Becoming a Male Nanny: A Unique Path 05:09: Challenging Misconceptions of Men in Caregiving 10:07: Demand for Male Nannies and Societal Shifts 18:20: Redefining Masculinity 23:13: The Role of Love in Personal Growth 29:47: Navigating Parenting Challenges 35:22: Creating Safety Over Discipline 40:14: Encouraging Male Involvement in Childcare