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S4E1: You've Got Two Buckets

Episode 1 of the The Creative Revolution Podcast podcast, hosted by Ryan J. Rhoades, titled "S4E1: You've Got Two Buckets" was published on November 10, 2021 and runs 11 minutes.

November 10, 2021 ·11m · The Creative Revolution Podcast

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Imagine two buckets. On each there is a label that reads: 🪣 - Bucket #1: Things you CAN change 🪣 - Bucket #2: Things you CAN’T change You can only choose to carry one around with you at any given moment. Some things that always are within reach for you within bucket #1: Your response to the things that happen The story you tell yourself about what is happening or has happened What you choose to make / build / think about/ do Your next decision Some things that always out of your reach, deep in the endless bottom of bucket #2: What other people think of you or your ideas What other people make / build / think about/do What the weather does What your favorite (or least favorite) sports team/politician/religious leader/business does The events of the past Basically everything else When you’re focused on the things in Bucket #1 🪣, you will feel empowered, centered, (mostly) at peace, and in a state of flow and presence. When you’re focused on the things in Bucket #2🪣, you will feel powerless, scattered, afraid, frustrated, disappointed, angry, and in a state of chaos, anxiety, and distraction. Accepting (and yes, perhaps even embracing) the things you can’t change — and then acting accordingly — isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s the only thing that will actually leave you feeling empowered out of that hole 🕳 you’ve found yourself stuck in. The first step to getting out of a hole is to stop pretending you’re not in one in the first place. The question then becomes: what are you going to do about it? You’ve got two buckets in that hole with you. Only one of them will help you get out of it. Links: The Science of Getting Rich: www.scienceofgettingrich.info Connect with me: www.ryanjrhoades.com Online store: www.rdshop.biz

Imagine two buckets.

On each there is a label that reads:

🪣 - Bucket #1: Things you CAN change

🪣 - Bucket #2: Things you CAN’T change

You can only choose to carry one around with you at any given moment.

Some things that always are within reach for you within bucket #1:

  • Your response to the things that happen
  • The story you tell yourself about what is happening or has happened
  • What you choose to make / build / think about/ do
  • Your next decision

Some things that always out of your reach, deep in the endless bottom of bucket #2:

  • What other people think of you or your ideas
  • What other people make / build / think about/do
  • What the weather does
  • What your favorite (or least favorite) sports team/politician/religious leader/business does
  • The events of the past
  • Basically everything else

When you’re focused on the things in Bucket #1 🪣, you will feel empowered, centered, (mostly) at peace, and in a state of flow and presence.

When you’re focused on the things in Bucket #2🪣, you will feel powerless, scattered, afraid, frustrated, disappointed, angry, and in a state of chaos, anxiety, and distraction.

Accepting (and yes, perhaps even embracing) the things you can’t change — and then acting accordingly — isn’t a sign of weakness.

It’s the only thing that will actually leave you feeling empowered out of that hole 🕳 you’ve found yourself stuck in.

The first step to getting out of a hole is to stop pretending you’re not in one in the first place.

The question then becomes: what are you going to do about it?

You’ve got two buckets in that hole with you.

Only one of them will help you get out of it.

Links:
The Science of Getting Rich: www.scienceofgettingrich.info
Connect with me: www.ryanjrhoades.com
Online store: www.rdshop.biz

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