S4E6: The Mom Feeling Nobody Talks About: Loving Your Kid But Not Liking the Moment

Ever felt like you love your kid… but don’t actually like them right now?That feeling almost no mom talks about? We're talking about it today.It’s one of the most taboo feelings in motherhood—and one almost no one talks about out loud.In this honest and compassionate episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we break the silence around those moments when your child pushes every button you have. The truth is, loving your child and enjoying every moment with them are not the same thing—and that doesn’t make you a bad mom. It makes you human.We explore why these feelings happen more often than moms admit. Sometimes it’s a mismatch in temperament. Sometimes it’s sensory overload, exhaustion, or constant power struggles. And sometimes it’s simply the weight of parenting without enough support.Instead of shame, we offer understanding—and practical ways to reset when you feel overwhelmed.In this episode, we talk about:Why loving your child and liking their behavior are two different thingsHow burnout, sensory overload, and power struggles affect your reactionsSimple ways to regulate your nervous system before respondingHow connection can soften difficult momentsWhy repair and honest conversations strengthen your relationship with your childIf you’ve ever thought, “I love my child, but right now I don’t like this moment,” this conversation is for you.Because motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about honesty, growth, and learning how to come back to connection.You’re not alone in this.💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖Support the showGot ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com.Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!