S5 Ep56: He/Her/Daddy

Note: The guest of this episode now goes by Arrows Fitz and uses he/him/they/them pronouns. Filmmaker, model, and Youtuber Ari Fitz joins IHU to talk about their gender journey to coming out as non-binary, growing up queer, sex on reality TV, navigating accountability on twitter ad much more! Bae(s) of The Week: INNER HOE UPRISING! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Lucky W, Whitney, Tamika C.Self Care Tips: Have monthly check in’s with yourself and your partner(s)Cute Date Idea: Make weighted blankets togetherFuck It (Topic of the Day): Ari Fitz joins IHU to discuss their gender journey.  Points of discussion include:Processing ones gender and sexual identity in childhood, androgyny, harmful queer archetypes,  being kind to yourself, being on reality TV whilst Black and queer, f*cking on national TV, growing and learning in the public eye, coming to the conclusion that you’re non-binary, coming out on the internet, getting canceled on Twitter, navigating hurt, harm and accountability on the internet, attraction, navigating sexual identity while non-binary, internalized femme and queerphobia in masc on masc relationships, touch-me-nots and navigating masculinity in sexual practices, fashion brands who care about queer folks, masculinity and pregnancy, telling queer stories as a filmmaker, MTV’s The Real World, Chappelle’s Show, Are You the One, YouTube, and much more!HASHTAGSUse #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. SPONSOR(S)Head to rooted.nyc/ihu and use the code IHU to receive 15% off your first orderMake sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHURELEVANT LINKS AND NOTESBad Bitch Affirmations: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-bitch-affirmations-tickets-76587381921Ari’s Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/itsarifitzMy Mama Wears Timbs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRgTLb5EbiQBubbles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkn9eJa1oXkJoy Practice Dance Class:  Wepreacticejoy.comWEBSITE InnerHoeUprising.comPAY A HOE Paypal.me/innerhoehttps://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising WRITE IN [email protected] GIGSWanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to [email protected] MUSIC Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheRealhttps://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-byFuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti MaaEnd: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish CoENGINEERING AND EDITING BY Reality Show Connoisseur SamSOCIAL MEDIAJoin our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3AInner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisinRebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleiveSam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiegoAri | Twitter: @itzarifitzJoy Practice: @JoyPractice #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang  #nonbinary #gendernovember #gender